Why doesn't he want to be alone with me? Should I make the move? [please help!! I need advice!]

I've had a crush on him since i met him in the beginning of summer. Everyone could tell he was attracted to me..He's tried to kiss me like 3 times but I always got shy and pushed him away. On one of those nights, I told him I had a crush on him and then I let him kiss me. After that, i went on a trip and he asked my sister about me and she said i didn't mean anything i said or did that night.but he still came to my house when i got back to say happy birthday to me.i hadnt seen him for about a month since then bc after that, he got a dui after a frat hazing. He's also really dorky/shy/sweet and probably thought i wasnt interested so i made the first move by inviting him over to watch a movie at my house and he asked me out to the movies (he's friends with my brother and asked him if it was ok to take me out) but on the ';date'; he brought his brother and his gf..which i thought was weird. He didnt try to make a move but we had a great time tho and talked a lot and by the end of the night he said we should hang out again soon (he seemed kinda nervous). The other night he asked my brother if he could come over our house to hang out but my brother didnt want to pick him up. so i texted him a week ago about hanging out one friday and he seemed excited about it..so i texted him again yesterday to see if he was busy tomorrow night and he said he couldnt come cuz he had work..but said we should do it another day of the week for sure...the weird thing is...he told me to invite 2 other friends too so we could have ';drinking games';...why? I wanted to be alone with him. (I'm 18, he's 20 by the way and im leaving for NYU aug 24) I'm just really confused lol what should i do? i dont want to seem pushy but he's not getting the idea (i just want to kiss him before I leave)..any advice would be great! =)..oh and he's coming to my goodbye party on friday


Why doesn't he want to be alone with me? Should I make the move? [please help!! I need advice!]
omg i could only read about 5 lines of that before i totally lost interest. whatever it is, it's definitely not that complicated.





just follow your instincts, you're leaving soon anyways so what's the big deal?Why doesn't he want to be alone with me? Should I make the move? [please help!! I need advice!]
to long sorry
i actually read it :]





i may not be much help but i think that wat ur sis said really did bother him...and maybe hes upset. that or he doesnt want to be alone cuz hes worried he'll make a move and then get pushed away again
maybe hes trying to be a gentlemen; which is a good thing. or it could be that hes nervous but guys would never admit to that. and no you shouldnt make the first move; when the time is right, he will make the first move(be patience):