What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?

';Dont expect perfection, and dont sweat minor problems. At the end of the day, you wont remember who forgot what or if the color was a tiny bit off with your centerpieces. No one else is going to notice unless you bring it to their attention, so relax and enjoy your day and your party.';--My mom





';Just take a few shots in the morning, then before that gallop down the aisle and the rest of the day will go pretty smoothly. Just remember not to go too overboard; I once knew a bride who didnt remember her wedding day and got up to go do it over again the next morning.';--Dad





My parents are polar opposites. =)What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
Two pieces actually...





1) Every bride, no matter how hard she tries to please everyone, will rub someone the wrong way. There are so many rules of etiquette, differing opinions, and traditions that it is impossible to be perfect- so don't try! Don't sweat it- just remember that those who love you are excited for you and not looking for the mistakes.





2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!





Best Wishes = )What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
When I married my first husband I asked my mother if she thought I was doing the right thing. She told me ';I tried 3 times and could not pick one for myself. I can't pick one for you.'; I really liked that answer. My only regret about it now is that I wish I understood it more when I was younger. What I have learned is you cannot listen to what others say. It is your life and your decision. You have to make your own choices, and you have to live with those choices. I was married to him for 16 years. Although it did not last I learned a lot Life is short so make every day a good one.
Take in a deep breath once in a while and look around. Soak it in! Because 6 hours will seem like 6 minutes if you don't soak it in while you can!





He was right. I'm glad I took the time to soak it in!





When my wife and I watch our wedding video, some of the the stuff we saw surprised us, ';I remember that incident, but not the part where the bridemaids laughed.'; etc.





Everything happened so quickly!





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Let God. This means let God handle stuff-you don麓t have to.





I agree with the other person too when she said this:


2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
In the end it is all about the two of you and celebrating becoming one with your friends and your family present. Not everything will be perfect on your wedding day but relax and enjoy it.
My favorite advice was given to my fiance by several people:





';If Momma's not happy, nobody's happy!';





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To savour every minute as your wedding day goes by so fast. I made a conceited effort to enjoy every minute of my wedding day thanks to that advice.





good luck
To not forget that it's about the marriage, not the wedding. :) Enjoy.
You don't NEED to do certain things JUST because it is a wedding. Have fun and be relaxed about it.
Don't expect perfection and don't sweat the small stuff.
SIGN THE PRE-NUP, BECAUSE YOUR MARRIGE WONT LAST. TRUST ME.
Don't compare your marriage to that of anyone else
Say yes dear all the time.
dont gain weight after the wedding.
';Don't do it!';
don't get married