I am having problems with toilet training my pup. When we first had him he was partly trained on newspaper. I tried crate training but he hated crate and wouldn't stay in it no matter what I tried. Instead of getting better he seems to be getting worse. At the moment he uses garden 20% puppy pads 20% and my kitchen floor 60% of the time. What can I do?My puppy is nearly 12 weeks old. Can anyone give me some advice?
Housebreaking can be frustrating, but patience is key. Get rid of the newspaper and puppy pads...they encourage in-home elimination. Take the puppy out hourly. When he potties outside, reward him...sometimes with a treat, sometimes with verbal praise. Clean any accidents indoors with a pet odor neutralizing product to discourage elimination in the same area. Other than that, be patient. The puppy is just a baby, and lacks the muscle control that adult dogs posses.My puppy is nearly 12 weeks old. Can anyone give me some advice?
When i got my puppy i used newspapers on the floor it was the worst thing and caused a really bad smell. I wouldn't waste your money on puppy pads. My advice would definitely be to crate train him it is fantastic as they won't mess where they sleep also you have piece of mind when you have to leave the house you know where they are. Jack wasn't house trained till he was around 7 months before he got the hang of it and still has the odd accident . I was told they can have accidents up to a year. It does get easier but not for few months yet but definitely worth all that constant disinfecting the house!
I think he is a bit confused, paper pads and garden. Pads are the worst thing to use, my Friends dog is 2 years old and still uses pads. Put his bed in the crate along with food bowls and toys, leave the door open and play with him next to the crate then chuck some tasty treats inside (leave the door open) and pet him while he is eating treats.... keep chucking the treats in and keep the door open. When it's bed time say good night and put him in his crate. Just ignore his cries, this will stop for in a short while. Then you can start toilet training. He is only 12 weeks so till young. If you use the crate properly he'll be housetrained within a week. Good luck
Be consistent. Praise him everytime you see him use the puppy pad, and when he starts sniffing and acting like he has to potty take him to the puppy pad or outside and praise him when he goes. Only scold when you see him have an accident on the kitchen floor.
Take him to where you want him to potty everytime after he eats, and every couple of hours, and everytime he starts acting like he may have to go. He's not going to do it on his own, he is still pretty young. You just have to keep on top of him for a little while longer. I think our dogs where pretty much house broken around 4 months and absolutely no accidents by 6 months.
We didn't crate train our dogs either. (most people will swear by it though) We just kept on top of them and took them out constantly and constant praise for when they went where we wanted them to.
Good luck
Crate train him. Who cares if he doesn't like it? You don't like that he pees on the floor, so until he gets it he has to stay in his crate when you can't watch him. Trust me, being in the crate won't hurt him but he cries and whines because he knows you will give in.
You are the master so get to crate training. When he is trustworthy enough then you don't need to use the crate anymore.
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Our puppy is 11 months old now and clean.
We only did newspaper at night and through the day it was strictly outside and a sharp telling 'NO' if she did it inside.
I took her outside and said 'Go pee-pees when she was crouching. She now goes to Pee pees whenever I say it. Very handy when you stop on a journey.
It takes time and perserverance - good luck.
Just carry on what you are doing and give a name for when he pees outside. With my dog we say be clean it also works if your in a rush to be somewhere or you have him out the car if you can just tell him to go to the toilet. My dog was still peeing on the floor when she was 2! But they're puppies till they're 4 and when she was three she did go outside, however I don't think it will take so long for you because I think she has a bladder problem and poopin problem. She will do it on the floor if you don't let her out before bed. I also recommend a dog flap so he can come and go as he pleases, as I think this helps her but if he is a big dog then I wouldn't because he wont be able to go out when you aren't home as you'll have to lock it incase of burglers.
Stick to newspaper.
Remove the pads.
Praise him in the garden and ignore puddles in the house (that is do not even comment on them)
Clean with biological soap powder and use disinfectant afterwards.
He was getting the message and the newspapers are what he knows. With some dogs it does take time. Good luck
take him outside every half hour or so, so that he gets used to going outside then eventually he should go by the door when he wants or has to go this worked with my english bulldogs and they are one of the most stubborn dogs alive
Persevere with his crate training. Put his food down in there, and put an old sweater of your own in with him ( something with your scent on) It may be weeks before you can actually close the door on him, but don't give up!! Then , you can buy a spray, its called ';8 in 1'; Puppy Trainer Housebreaking Spray. You just spray this where you WANT your dog to get used to doing his business!! You can buy this at most pet stores, and may even find it online! Its worth a try!
Stick with it....it won't happen overnight, but if you make sure you persevere, and give your pup loads of praise when he gets it roght, it won't take long at all!! Good luck!!
try this link to an article from professionals:
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keep teaching him to go to toilet, you need a lot of patience and it may take quiet a while for your puppy to get used to because he's only young, teach him to let you know wen he wants to outside to do a wee and that. hopefully he will get much better and not do it on kitchen floor, only praise him up wen he does it outside
A puppy has to learn how to control his bladder. This takes time and patience. My pup is now 11weeks and nearly trained. I feed twice a day. When finished eating I remove the bowl and give him approx 30 Min's then put him out to the toilet. He will usually poo. For peeing I watch for him drinking and pop him out regularly. I have found that by giving lots of praise he soon got the message but don't scold for mishaps as they will become nervous and it will make them worse. I just think it is all about persevering, praise and regular placing outside........I would get rid of all the aids as this may be confusing him....just concentrate on toilet outside not in......the only aid I used in the beginning was the spray which you put on paper and then moved the paper outside.......Don't forget he will associate with the smell also so when he pees outside leave for a little while before disinfecting so he associates it with a toilet area........
How long are you waiting to take him outside? Are you taking him out on a leash or just letting him out the door, assuming that he will just ';know'; to go potty outside?
Your pup is 3 months old - that means - at most, the longest he can hold it is 4 hours. That means, every 3.5 hours you should put his leash on, take him outside and say go pee pee, go poo poo, go potty, whatever you want the code word to be. And when he goes - praise praise praise. Every 3.5 hours - including all night long. And get rid of those puppy pads immediately. That encourages him to go in the house!
As for crate training - if I could do it with a rescue that thought the kennel was the pound, you can do it to. Here are some answers to a previous question on crate training.
Even the person that asked the question is having success. The point is - you have to train them to see the crate is a good positive thing
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Good luck!
at this point the puppy is very confused. i have a 12 week old german shepherd that i am potty training now. I find the most effective way to potty train is to have one place the puppy can go. In my opinon and this as worked on all my dogs, what i do is take the dog out immediately after it eats. Most importantly go to the same spot outside each and every time, Also when you see the puppy sniffing the ground and running around looking for a place to go to the bathroom grab the leash and go outside. say to the dog lets go pee pee, something to the effect each and everytime the dog goes out. the key is to be consistent
also do not let the dog play outside when training to pee. during these sessions its not playtime its bathroom time. when the dog is finished going to the bathroom immediately praise it and go inside. this will let the dog know that you want it to go outside to pee and not on your floors. also i got to tell you, crate training is a great tool for puppy training, potty training etc, when used properly and not a form of punishment. I use the crate for overnight when my husband and I are asleep and yes our puppy has a hard time with the crate as well. she would rather be in bed with us lol. but just keep at it slowly and for very short periods of time. I feed our puppy in it with the door opened and hide special toys and treats in it so that she associates it with being good not bad because all dogs need a den. also never, never confine puppy in it for long periods of time except overnight. never force the puppy in it. keep the door open thru out the day so the puppy can come and go as pleased. never let puppy out when it is crying because she/he will associate that and keeping crying to be let out.
When they are babies they have no control of their bladders so you have to watch him constantly and learn to read his body language and then when he's about to go you have to whizz him outside and then congratulate him for doing it outside. In my puppy book it said that a puppy should be completely house trained by the time he's 6 months old, cos then they can control themselves so at least your half way there! Good luck and persevere, its great when they're fully trained.
My puppy was hard work at first but we soon turned her around , we just kept putting paper down by the back door,sometimes I would see she was going to go toilet so I would pick her up and put her on the paper, and she started to understand, and then we started opening the door and letting her out , when she had done her business in the garden we would praise her, everytime she went elsewhere I would show here what she had done, and tap her. It was succesful, and now she does not go toilet anywhere but our garden.
Hope it helps
As he was trained on newspaper then I suggest you continue this.. Put a good area down to start with, then gradually reduce it. Take him to his appointed place outside after meals and after any energetic activities. (Always to the same place -- routine is so important for dogs). Take some treats with you and If and when he does perform, praise him immensely and give him a treat straight away. If you treat him later than about five seconds he won't remember why he's got it.
Persevere and you will win in the end.
Your puppy is still young. You need to take it outside every 2 hours and praise it when it goes outside. I would get rid of puppy pads so they aren't even an option. Then I would go back to crate training with will take at least 2 weeks for the dog to get used to being in. You will have to ignore the crying and attempts to get out while you are sleeping. Potty training may take up to 4 months before there are no accidents at all. Get a book on potty training a puppy. Good Luck!!
He wouldn't stat in the crate, no matter what you tried?
Did you try closing the latch?
Friday, January 8, 2010
My husband and I are undergoing IVF in a couple of months. Anyone who has been through this have any advice?
My husband has Klinefelter's and we are going to undergo ICSI/TESE procedure. Anyone out there who has been through a similar experience? Successes and or failures?My husband and I are undergoing IVF in a couple of months. Anyone who has been through this have any advice?
We are currently in the middle of an IVF cycle due to male factor infertility. We will be doing ICSI with our cycle as well. We are about mid-way through the cycle so I'm not able to comment on the success/failure part but I just wanted to wish you good luck and offer a few pieces of advice. We, as in the females, carry the burden in an IVF cycle so be prepared for mood swings, discomfort, and lots of injections due to all the medications we have to take. There is also a lot of waiting during IVF so find things to keep your mind off the whole process or it becomes consuming. Make sure you really like and trust your doctor. I've heard from many other women that they were led to believe that the doctor who did their consult was not always the one who did the IVF procedures because they were a part of a practice that rotated doctors. Join an IVF message board or group. I belong to ivfconnections.net and personally find it very valuable when I'm questioning what I'm feeling or just want to discuss the whole thing with others who are going through it.
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We are currently in the middle of an IVF cycle due to male factor infertility. We will be doing ICSI with our cycle as well. We are about mid-way through the cycle so I'm not able to comment on the success/failure part but I just wanted to wish you good luck and offer a few pieces of advice. We, as in the females, carry the burden in an IVF cycle so be prepared for mood swings, discomfort, and lots of injections due to all the medications we have to take. There is also a lot of waiting during IVF so find things to keep your mind off the whole process or it becomes consuming. Make sure you really like and trust your doctor. I've heard from many other women that they were led to believe that the doctor who did their consult was not always the one who did the IVF procedures because they were a part of a practice that rotated doctors. Join an IVF message board or group. I belong to ivfconnections.net and personally find it very valuable when I'm questioning what I'm feeling or just want to discuss the whole thing with others who are going through it.
Baby dust to you!
I am going to start an online t-shirt business. I need advice at making an interactive site.?
I want people to be able to log in to the website and be able to make a wishlist, and have their info saved for future visits. I am planning on using paypal for payments. Not sure if this changes anything. Thanks!I am going to start an online t-shirt business. I need advice at making an interactive site.?
You really don't have to set up a website at all. You can open an on-line t-shirt business through cafepress and they will pretty much handle everything except the artwork.
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He used to be my friend :( Advice please !!?
I have had a really close friend who i work with for over a year now we used to hang out loads talk loads and well you general best bud stuff , but he has recently been promoted and is now my manager and things have changed loads and im really lost as to how to feel about it. We dont hang out often he treats me really differently at work and well yeah things are just weird between us a tad awkward. I really dont know how to be around him and how to feel about this, any advice would be good as to how to deal with my situation. Thanks.He used to be my friend :( Advice please !!?
Kinda weird, but easily fixable. Obviously he doesn't want to take this job so lightly and probably doesn't want to be seen as such. Hopefully he isn't getting a big head because he got promoted. Just talk to him after work and hopefully that will clear things up. Or call him or something to see if he wants to hang out. If he says he is busy then make a lighthearted comment ';busy with work stuff?'; and see what he says. Something else to consider-if people see you two hanging out all the time they might assume that he would play favorites and pick you over other people, causing a stressful workplace and eventually a lot of rumors. So he might be trying to save you a little bit of hassle too. As long as he isn't rude to you, there isn't much to worry about. He probably is a little nervous too, considering that he just got a promotion and any support that you give would probably be really appreciated. Let him know that you are there for him. He also might not want to feel like he is rubbing it in your face, so just kinda let it go for a bit until the whole newness of the situation wears off...He used to be my friend :( Advice please !!?
I think under these circumstances it is fair to say, that he is to treat you differently in work due to the nature of his promotion.
However this does not mean he should treat you differently outside of work.
You may not want to hear this, but talk to him and confront him about how you think things have changed outside of work between you.
Freely say him about it .Talk to him about what U want to be in his life a friend,best friend or lover (if u r a femele). Mean It ';Life is like a vast ocean where things can overcome by Your Efforts Only';.Todays busy life is a modern one and it separates the relations but its the human inner conscience which forces him to overcome these forces.So,Try It ,You Will feel at your highest Satisfactory Range
You should first confront your friend and ask him why off late is he acting weird?I think that now that he is promoted he nolonger sees you as his friend.Because he thinks that if he keeps friendship with you,you might gain an upperhand and will take advantage of him by asking him to do some help in officework.Bye.
talk to him and clear things up
Do you like him??? clear ................and live stress less life..........
Best luck
You would talk only at your workplace or outside too?If you did talk to him outside then you can easily confront him while not at work and ask him for his change of behavior.Tell him that it hurts you to see that his attitude has changed towards you after change in position.Maybe he would reply saying that he should treat you equally with the other colleagues.Don't feel bad about that if he says so.Because that is the problem what everyone faces once they are in a little bit higher position and they have friends who are in a position lower than them.They too have pressures to conform to.They don't want to hear that because of their friendship they are being too lenient or something.All you need to do is talk it out to him.I am sure with the wonderful rapport that you have it won't be difficult to do so.
And if you only talk to him at your workplace find a suitable time when you know he would be alone and go talk it out to him.Talking it out will solve all your problems and clear any misunderstandings if any.
All the Best!!
Kinda weird, but easily fixable. Obviously he doesn't want to take this job so lightly and probably doesn't want to be seen as such. Hopefully he isn't getting a big head because he got promoted. Just talk to him after work and hopefully that will clear things up. Or call him or something to see if he wants to hang out. If he says he is busy then make a lighthearted comment ';busy with work stuff?'; and see what he says. Something else to consider-if people see you two hanging out all the time they might assume that he would play favorites and pick you over other people, causing a stressful workplace and eventually a lot of rumors. So he might be trying to save you a little bit of hassle too. As long as he isn't rude to you, there isn't much to worry about. He probably is a little nervous too, considering that he just got a promotion and any support that you give would probably be really appreciated. Let him know that you are there for him. He also might not want to feel like he is rubbing it in your face, so just kinda let it go for a bit until the whole newness of the situation wears off...He used to be my friend :( Advice please !!?
I think under these circumstances it is fair to say, that he is to treat you differently in work due to the nature of his promotion.
However this does not mean he should treat you differently outside of work.
You may not want to hear this, but talk to him and confront him about how you think things have changed outside of work between you.
Freely say him about it .Talk to him about what U want to be in his life a friend,best friend or lover (if u r a femele). Mean It ';Life is like a vast ocean where things can overcome by Your Efforts Only';.Todays busy life is a modern one and it separates the relations but its the human inner conscience which forces him to overcome these forces.So,Try It ,You Will feel at your highest Satisfactory Range
You should first confront your friend and ask him why off late is he acting weird?I think that now that he is promoted he nolonger sees you as his friend.Because he thinks that if he keeps friendship with you,you might gain an upperhand and will take advantage of him by asking him to do some help in officework.Bye.
talk to him and clear things up
Do you like him??? clear ................and live stress less life..........
Best luck
You would talk only at your workplace or outside too?If you did talk to him outside then you can easily confront him while not at work and ask him for his change of behavior.Tell him that it hurts you to see that his attitude has changed towards you after change in position.Maybe he would reply saying that he should treat you equally with the other colleagues.Don't feel bad about that if he says so.Because that is the problem what everyone faces once they are in a little bit higher position and they have friends who are in a position lower than them.They too have pressures to conform to.They don't want to hear that because of their friendship they are being too lenient or something.All you need to do is talk it out to him.I am sure with the wonderful rapport that you have it won't be difficult to do so.
And if you only talk to him at your workplace find a suitable time when you know he would be alone and go talk it out to him.Talking it out will solve all your problems and clear any misunderstandings if any.
All the Best!!
What is the best piece of advice (or fortune) you have ever gotten from a fortune cookie?
';Don't do it';
I was on a date with a guy I thought I really liked.
We didn't.
He was arrested for rape and murder 2 weeks later!What is the best piece of advice (or fortune) you have ever gotten from a fortune cookie?
On the first date with my now fiance, my fortune read ';The one that you love is closer than you think.'; On our 5th year anniversary she recreated our first date and bought one of those custom fortune cookies that had the same fortune inside.What is the best piece of advice (or fortune) you have ever gotten from a fortune cookie?
';the man sitting behind you is after your sister. your lucky numbers are 3,6,8,15.';
';Do something unusual tomorrow'; I love this one, because to me it means always doing something incredible today to keep me sane and life exciting.
';Smile before bed, it'll help you sleep better';.... this one's from a Dove chocolate, though...
';You and your spouse will have a happy life together.';
I keep that on my sunvisor in my car.
A friend says to add the words 'In Bed' or 'Between the sheets' to a fortune...
Do something unusual tomorrow -- in bed.
You and your spouse will be happy a long time -- in bed.
My favorite for this ... 'You are popular and have lots of friends -- in bed!'
I hope nobody takes offense, because it is simply a silly way to re-read your fortunes.
In order to have friends you must also be one. your lucky numbers are.....
It wasn't really advice. It said : Good fortune was coming my way.
';You can't stop the waves but you can learn to surf.';
Shortly after I got this, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. We've been doing a lot of surfing this last year. Blessedly she is now cancer free.shiseido oily skin
I was on a date with a guy I thought I really liked.
We didn't.
He was arrested for rape and murder 2 weeks later!What is the best piece of advice (or fortune) you have ever gotten from a fortune cookie?
On the first date with my now fiance, my fortune read ';The one that you love is closer than you think.'; On our 5th year anniversary she recreated our first date and bought one of those custom fortune cookies that had the same fortune inside.What is the best piece of advice (or fortune) you have ever gotten from a fortune cookie?
';the man sitting behind you is after your sister. your lucky numbers are 3,6,8,15.';
';Do something unusual tomorrow'; I love this one, because to me it means always doing something incredible today to keep me sane and life exciting.
';Smile before bed, it'll help you sleep better';.... this one's from a Dove chocolate, though...
';You and your spouse will have a happy life together.';
I keep that on my sunvisor in my car.
A friend says to add the words 'In Bed' or 'Between the sheets' to a fortune...
Do something unusual tomorrow -- in bed.
You and your spouse will be happy a long time -- in bed.
My favorite for this ... 'You are popular and have lots of friends -- in bed!'
I hope nobody takes offense, because it is simply a silly way to re-read your fortunes.
In order to have friends you must also be one. your lucky numbers are.....
It wasn't really advice. It said : Good fortune was coming my way.
';You can't stop the waves but you can learn to surf.';
Shortly after I got this, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. We've been doing a lot of surfing this last year. Blessedly she is now cancer free.
Hey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
My lean body mass is 141.6 and body fat is 27.1%Hey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
Oh, how much I understand you! But all these cardio workout programs and diets just don’t work… Reading a lot on this subject, I found out how many unproductive myths there are about how we gain and how we should lose fat! It’s amazing..
For instance, that there is no fat loss magic to doing cardio on an empty stomach. In fact, most trainers “in-the-know” are using intervals instead of slow, boring cardio to help their clients burn fat fast. And honestly, who wants to be doing boring cardio at 6am while their stomach is rumbling? And now, it’s finally discovered that long cardio or aerobic workouts several days a week are the WORST WAY to burn fat.
The fact is we’re burning fat all the time, even while you sit and read Yahoo Answers here. So you don’t need working out every day, but it’s just enough to do 3 short home fitness workouts per week of 45 minutes with no cardio at all...
Maybe the greatest is the Late-Night-Eating myth... And here I too discovered that what my body usually tells me was the right thing: Going to bed hungry is one of the WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO.
Another thing is that those crappy infomercial abs gizmos WILL NOT burn your belly fat or give you a flatter stomach and six pack abs. But you're going to burn belly fat 5 times faster by using certain full body exercises that don't actually target your abs at all...
Another myth is that we can't lose fat and gain muscle at the same time... Well, the truth is we can.
A proper permanent fat loss is about throwing away those good old myths and start doing the right thing in the most natural way. It’s called Fat Furnace; see here: http://tinyurl.com/ffurnaceHey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
Food:
Stay away from white grains like pasta, bread, flour, and rice. When eating grains go for whole wheat, it’s a lot healthier and has fewer calories. When eating meat, always go for lean or extra lean if available. Also stay away from junk food – of course! But, don’t demonize it, because if you are the type who loves their chocolate bars and you completely cut yourself off, you’ll only want them more. Cut down you junk intake to once a week, and on the day you have that chocolate bar make a mental note to get an extra 15 minutes of exercise that day.
Make sure you drink lots of water; it helps your metabolism and hydrates your body (obviously). If you don’t drink enough water your body will think its going to be starved, and will go into “survival mode” – this’ll cause your body to retain all the water you do drink and all the fat it can get because its preparing to be starved. Also, drinking green tea every morning increases your daily metabolism by 17%. You can take vitamin b complex to increase your metabolism as well. Try eating 5 small meals a day to keep your metabolism working, and never skip breakfast! Skipping breakfast will slow your metabolism for the day!
When you snack only snack on fruits and veggies – they’re nutritious and delicious! And low in calories. My doctor recommended eating a slice of cheese with a piece of fruit as a snack so your also getting protein with your fruit. Try to stop eating after 7 pm, and only drink tea, milk, or water after that. This’ll prevent you from going to bed with food in your stomach that won’t be burned while you’re sleeping; it’ll just get turned into fat that you don’t want.
Exercise:
For exercise, make sure you get AT LEAST 30 minutes a day, but I’d recommend 60 minutes. Do cardio exercise every day as well as strength exercises like push ups and crunches. Combining the two exercises will help to prevent having saggy skin once you’ve lost weight. Swimming can be a good strength exercise if you like going to the pool or lake – it tones everything at once and its fun! While you’re doing cardio (like jogging or running) make a routine that’ll challenge you but not over work you. Try running for 5 minutes then walking for 5. If that gets too easy try running for 6 walking for 4 etc.
A few things you can work on which will vastly improve your body fat percentage as well as your energy level, self-esteem, and mental focus.
Try this for two weeks and you'll definitely see a major improvement in your RIPPED appearance. AND, this doesn't involve popping dangerous diet pills:
First, Start eating fresh (not canned) pineapple. Pineapples have dozens of nutrients that are useful for your entire body, especially your digestive system and metabolism!!!. Slice one up and snack on it. Eat one whole pineapple every two days. Do this for a couple weeks and you'll notice a substantial, SUBSTANTIAL improvement in the quality of your body and skin. Pineapples contain about a dozen nutrients that improve your body inside and out.
- Next, whenever you drink water, juice, etc. squeeze the juice of one fresh lemon or lime into it (No crappy bottled lemon juice please!). This will give you a good shot of pure, natural vitamin C, which also has a long list of positive effects for your energy level and immune system. AND it kills your appetite. Drink two glasses of lemon water every time you get the urge to chomp on hot dogs or cheeze doodles.
- Start taking Omega-3 supplements every day. These contain ';good'; oils that not only benefit your skin, they improve your mood and attention span as well.
- Every three days, take 1000 IU of oil-based vitamin E and 300 MG of Selenium. Vitamin E has a decades long track record of revitalizing skin. And you need the selenium to help metabolize the vitamin E in your body.
As with all vitamins, remember to take them with your meals and never on an empty stomach.
- Okay, now the hard part: You need, no, you MUST start engaging in at least 45 to 60 minutes of intense aerobic activity every day. That means running, bicycling, elliptical machines, stairmaster or an intense aerobics class. Let me be very precise about this: I'm talking about fast-motion total body exercise that causes you to break into a profuse, dripping sweat. Sweating is the way the human skin rids itself of toxins. Aerobic exercise also improves the tone of all muscles and organs in your body. Aerobic exercise will also do something extremely beneficial to your sleep pattern. The quality of your sleep will improve, and the quantity you’ll need will decrease. In other words, the efficiency of your sleep will skyrocket. Your energy level, attention span, and mood will also substantially improve. So, start doing 45 to 60 minutes of intense sweat-dripping aerobic exercise every day. However, it is important that you start doing it every day. So, even though this step is the hardest, it is the most important. This really revitalizes your skin. I know you don't believe me. So, I'm telling you to try it for two weeks.
The last part will really help you to lose weight AND look tight. A lot of people lose a boatload of weight but do NOT lose the flab. By doing intense aerobic exercise you lose weight AND tighten your body to an insane degree. I know, you still don't believe me. Try it for a couple weeks. You'll see...... you'll see.
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Running, sittups, planks, leglifts, and more fiber in your diet
Unfortunately, a quick ‘solution’ is not the answer to keeping those pounds off in the long term. The best weight loss tips advocate healthy food and exercise and discourage fad or crash diets that produce initial water loss and short term loss of weight that very often upsets the delicate balance of your body’s metabolism.
Losing weight is a slow, gradual process and requires a combination of healthy eating, balanced nutrition and exercise. Try not to place unrealistic expectations on yourself and be prepared for setbacks. If you falter, do not be too hard on yourself and commit to starting afresh the next day.
There are also many natural weight loss supplements available that are effective in helping you to achieve your goal weight and support a healthy metabolism naturally. Herbal and homeopathic remedies are gentle on the body’s system, helping to create the conditions necessary for weight stabilization and balance.
These natural weight loss supplements also promote overall physical, mental and emotional health. Herbs such as Fucus vesiculosis, Gallium aperine, Taraxacum officinalis, Glycorrhiza glabra, and Erythrea centaurium can help to boost the metabolism, improve liver and digestive functioning and keep the weight off. Another helpful herb is Garcinia cambogia that has been used for centuries in Ayurvedic medicine as a natural appetite suppressant.
i'm assuming you're a male? if you are male, your body fat percentage says you are obese. if you are female, your body fat percentage says you are above average. Either way, I';m sure you want to loose some extra pounds.
Get a membership at a gym. That way, you know you won't loose muscle because you are lifting.
Alternate the muscles you work out. One day should be an upper body day, the next day should be lower body day.
On lower body days, do cardio for about 20 minutes. Ab work is also good.
Eat healthy foods. Tuna, Chicken, Turkey for protein. Apples, Grapefruit, Oranges for fruit. Carrots, Celery, baroccoli, for vegetables. Whole grains instead of white. Pistachios instead of potato chips.
Protein shakes are also pretty good.
Aim for 1500 - 1800 calories per day. Depending on your goal.
Good luck.
Oh, how much I understand you! But all these cardio workout programs and diets just don’t work… Reading a lot on this subject, I found out how many unproductive myths there are about how we gain and how we should lose fat! It’s amazing..
For instance, that there is no fat loss magic to doing cardio on an empty stomach. In fact, most trainers “in-the-know” are using intervals instead of slow, boring cardio to help their clients burn fat fast. And honestly, who wants to be doing boring cardio at 6am while their stomach is rumbling? And now, it’s finally discovered that long cardio or aerobic workouts several days a week are the WORST WAY to burn fat.
The fact is we’re burning fat all the time, even while you sit and read Yahoo Answers here. So you don’t need working out every day, but it’s just enough to do 3 short home fitness workouts per week of 45 minutes with no cardio at all...
Maybe the greatest is the Late-Night-Eating myth... And here I too discovered that what my body usually tells me was the right thing: Going to bed hungry is one of the WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO.
Another thing is that those crappy infomercial abs gizmos WILL NOT burn your belly fat or give you a flatter stomach and six pack abs. But you're going to burn belly fat 5 times faster by using certain full body exercises that don't actually target your abs at all...
Another myth is that we can't lose fat and gain muscle at the same time... Well, the truth is we can.
A proper permanent fat loss is about throwing away those good old myths and start doing the right thing in the most natural way. It’s called Fat Furnace; see here: http://tinyurl.com/ffurnaceHey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
Food:
Stay away from white grains like pasta, bread, flour, and rice. When eating grains go for whole wheat, it’s a lot healthier and has fewer calories. When eating meat, always go for lean or extra lean if available. Also stay away from junk food – of course! But, don’t demonize it, because if you are the type who loves their chocolate bars and you completely cut yourself off, you’ll only want them more. Cut down you junk intake to once a week, and on the day you have that chocolate bar make a mental note to get an extra 15 minutes of exercise that day.
Make sure you drink lots of water; it helps your metabolism and hydrates your body (obviously). If you don’t drink enough water your body will think its going to be starved, and will go into “survival mode” – this’ll cause your body to retain all the water you do drink and all the fat it can get because its preparing to be starved. Also, drinking green tea every morning increases your daily metabolism by 17%. You can take vitamin b complex to increase your metabolism as well. Try eating 5 small meals a day to keep your metabolism working, and never skip breakfast! Skipping breakfast will slow your metabolism for the day!
When you snack only snack on fruits and veggies – they’re nutritious and delicious! And low in calories. My doctor recommended eating a slice of cheese with a piece of fruit as a snack so your also getting protein with your fruit. Try to stop eating after 7 pm, and only drink tea, milk, or water after that. This’ll prevent you from going to bed with food in your stomach that won’t be burned while you’re sleeping; it’ll just get turned into fat that you don’t want.
Exercise:
For exercise, make sure you get AT LEAST 30 minutes a day, but I’d recommend 60 minutes. Do cardio exercise every day as well as strength exercises like push ups and crunches. Combining the two exercises will help to prevent having saggy skin once you’ve lost weight. Swimming can be a good strength exercise if you like going to the pool or lake – it tones everything at once and its fun! While you’re doing cardio (like jogging or running) make a routine that’ll challenge you but not over work you. Try running for 5 minutes then walking for 5. If that gets too easy try running for 6 walking for 4 etc.
A few things you can work on which will vastly improve your body fat percentage as well as your energy level, self-esteem, and mental focus.
Try this for two weeks and you'll definitely see a major improvement in your RIPPED appearance. AND, this doesn't involve popping dangerous diet pills:
First, Start eating fresh (not canned) pineapple. Pineapples have dozens of nutrients that are useful for your entire body, especially your digestive system and metabolism!!!. Slice one up and snack on it. Eat one whole pineapple every two days. Do this for a couple weeks and you'll notice a substantial, SUBSTANTIAL improvement in the quality of your body and skin. Pineapples contain about a dozen nutrients that improve your body inside and out.
- Next, whenever you drink water, juice, etc. squeeze the juice of one fresh lemon or lime into it (No crappy bottled lemon juice please!). This will give you a good shot of pure, natural vitamin C, which also has a long list of positive effects for your energy level and immune system. AND it kills your appetite. Drink two glasses of lemon water every time you get the urge to chomp on hot dogs or cheeze doodles.
- Start taking Omega-3 supplements every day. These contain ';good'; oils that not only benefit your skin, they improve your mood and attention span as well.
- Every three days, take 1000 IU of oil-based vitamin E and 300 MG of Selenium. Vitamin E has a decades long track record of revitalizing skin. And you need the selenium to help metabolize the vitamin E in your body.
As with all vitamins, remember to take them with your meals and never on an empty stomach.
- Okay, now the hard part: You need, no, you MUST start engaging in at least 45 to 60 minutes of intense aerobic activity every day. That means running, bicycling, elliptical machines, stairmaster or an intense aerobics class. Let me be very precise about this: I'm talking about fast-motion total body exercise that causes you to break into a profuse, dripping sweat. Sweating is the way the human skin rids itself of toxins. Aerobic exercise also improves the tone of all muscles and organs in your body. Aerobic exercise will also do something extremely beneficial to your sleep pattern. The quality of your sleep will improve, and the quantity you’ll need will decrease. In other words, the efficiency of your sleep will skyrocket. Your energy level, attention span, and mood will also substantially improve. So, start doing 45 to 60 minutes of intense sweat-dripping aerobic exercise every day. However, it is important that you start doing it every day. So, even though this step is the hardest, it is the most important. This really revitalizes your skin. I know you don't believe me. So, I'm telling you to try it for two weeks.
The last part will really help you to lose weight AND look tight. A lot of people lose a boatload of weight but do NOT lose the flab. By doing intense aerobic exercise you lose weight AND tighten your body to an insane degree. I know, you still don't believe me. Try it for a couple weeks. You'll see...... you'll see.
And don't forget to vote for my answer as the BEST answer on yahoo.
Running, sittups, planks, leglifts, and more fiber in your diet
Unfortunately, a quick ‘solution’ is not the answer to keeping those pounds off in the long term. The best weight loss tips advocate healthy food and exercise and discourage fad or crash diets that produce initial water loss and short term loss of weight that very often upsets the delicate balance of your body’s metabolism.
Losing weight is a slow, gradual process and requires a combination of healthy eating, balanced nutrition and exercise. Try not to place unrealistic expectations on yourself and be prepared for setbacks. If you falter, do not be too hard on yourself and commit to starting afresh the next day.
There are also many natural weight loss supplements available that are effective in helping you to achieve your goal weight and support a healthy metabolism naturally. Herbal and homeopathic remedies are gentle on the body’s system, helping to create the conditions necessary for weight stabilization and balance.
These natural weight loss supplements also promote overall physical, mental and emotional health. Herbs such as Fucus vesiculosis, Gallium aperine, Taraxacum officinalis, Glycorrhiza glabra, and Erythrea centaurium can help to boost the metabolism, improve liver and digestive functioning and keep the weight off. Another helpful herb is Garcinia cambogia that has been used for centuries in Ayurvedic medicine as a natural appetite suppressant.
i'm assuming you're a male? if you are male, your body fat percentage says you are obese. if you are female, your body fat percentage says you are above average. Either way, I';m sure you want to loose some extra pounds.
Get a membership at a gym. That way, you know you won't loose muscle because you are lifting.
Alternate the muscles you work out. One day should be an upper body day, the next day should be lower body day.
On lower body days, do cardio for about 20 minutes. Ab work is also good.
Eat healthy foods. Tuna, Chicken, Turkey for protein. Apples, Grapefruit, Oranges for fruit. Carrots, Celery, baroccoli, for vegetables. Whole grains instead of white. Pistachios instead of potato chips.
Protein shakes are also pretty good.
Aim for 1500 - 1800 calories per day. Depending on your goal.
Good luck.
How would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
I had my son 2 months ago, I was exclusively breast feeding for the first month and a week and then i began to supplement because my nipples are very sore however there is not incorrect latching,dont think theres any cracks. I dont think i have started my period, I bled for the first 2 weeks and then began bleeding again at about 4 weeks then i started clotting. Didnt have any cramping or anything. My appetite is alot like when i was pregnant. Is it possible?How would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
yes it is very possible go see your doctor asapHow would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
yes because if you dont breastfeed regularly, it stops 'acting in the same way as a contraceptive' i know this because my doc asked me how long i was going in between feeding my son, he said if theres gaps of 5hours or more my body will begin menstruating again. although with so much bleeding i doubt you are pregnant, its probably the breastfeeding thats making you hungry, it does tend to do that with some women. best get checked if you;re worried though
Of course if you have been having sex it is possible...but I do not think you are. Your nipples are going to be sore from the breastfeeding whether he is latching correctly or not. Also, breastfeeding, exclusivly or not burns calories and the whole time I breastfed my son I had a crazy appetite. It sounds like you are fine but take a test when you expect your next period if you still think you may be. Good luck and congratulations on the new baby!
If you are breastfeeding then your appetite will be big like when you were pregnant. Your periods won't get normal for quite some time. Relax. Things will get back to normal with your body soon enough. Congrats.
yes it is very possible go see your doctor asapHow would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
yes because if you dont breastfeed regularly, it stops 'acting in the same way as a contraceptive' i know this because my doc asked me how long i was going in between feeding my son, he said if theres gaps of 5hours or more my body will begin menstruating again. although with so much bleeding i doubt you are pregnant, its probably the breastfeeding thats making you hungry, it does tend to do that with some women. best get checked if you;re worried though
Of course if you have been having sex it is possible...but I do not think you are. Your nipples are going to be sore from the breastfeeding whether he is latching correctly or not. Also, breastfeeding, exclusivly or not burns calories and the whole time I breastfed my son I had a crazy appetite. It sounds like you are fine but take a test when you expect your next period if you still think you may be. Good luck and congratulations on the new baby!
If you are breastfeeding then your appetite will be big like when you were pregnant. Your periods won't get normal for quite some time. Relax. Things will get back to normal with your body soon enough. Congrats.
Is it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
My boyfriend and I agreed to go to second base. We haven't yet, but we've talked about it and set limits. We've done this before actually, but we weren't ready and we didn't talk about it beforehand. But now we've grown so much more since then. I was just wondering if it's normal to be nervous and if anyone has any advice. Thank you.Is it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
yes its normal to be nervous, my advice well... just give it time, you will get comfortable with it with time and then when you reach that point youll be ready to move to third baseIs it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
It is normal to be nervous, Im not exactly sure what second base is anymore haha, once you hit a home run you dont worry about the bases anymore HAHA jk, Take this seriously tho, if you are ready then great if not dont do it,
its normal!
yes its normal to be nervous, my advice well... just give it time, you will get comfortable with it with time and then when you reach that point youll be ready to move to third baseIs it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
It is normal to be nervous, Im not exactly sure what second base is anymore haha, once you hit a home run you dont worry about the bases anymore HAHA jk, Take this seriously tho, if you are ready then great if not dont do it,
its normal!
What is a good blogging/advice website?
I want to be able to blog about whatever I want, and be able to get feedback/advice from other bloggers along with me giving advice to other peopls blogs.. Where should I go?What is a good blogging/advice website?
lifehacker.com is a great site, great tips etc
lifehacker.com is a great site, great tips etc
My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Never stop exercising.My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Thank you for the BA,indeed it is very important.I've seen women at that age who,with exercise,look AMAZING.Hope to never quit myself.
My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Well I have some.I'll be 54 years young in two days and can still do a back flip off a car and can't find an 18 year old with as fast of hands so don't let the numbers get to you.The difference is now we know we can do it , we are better at doing it,and we know when not to do it..
I hate how our society makes everyone think aging is bad, you're only as old as you act and remember with age comes wisdom, if i were you I'd go out and party like you were 20 again or do something really spontaneous like sky diving.
happy birthday
You should not be taking advice from ones younger and less wise than you. With age comes wisdom. Be who you are and be proud to be half a century old. Remember, we don't GET gray hair, we EARN it.
Happy Birthday! Party like there's no tomorrow, you are only as young as the man you're feeling, no seriously enjoy life!
Don't tell anyone your age and still have fun. Just because you're getting older doesn't mean you can't stay current. Give advice when people ask. That is what makes older people interesting.
Eat your vegetables. Happy birthday.
I love the Carl Fredrickson icon!
I'm nearly 1/4 of a century and I feel old on here, you must be brave woman!! ;-)
Do something really exciting, like bungee jump or snorkling !
Happy Birthday in advance... Keep Rocking... thats the secret to longevity
Congratulations.
Stay out of tanning boothes, don't smoke, stay out of bars, and drink lots of water
partayyy WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooo
about ?
Start acomplishing some of the stuff you want to do before you die...
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Have sex with me...
Lurk more. It's never enough.
I`ll be 54,Wednesday.Keep on going.
give it a go it just may be your last chance~~
just like fine wine
Stay young at heart!
I hit that mark a couple of years ago...it's not as bad as it sounds!!
yeah, get off yahoo, you're over 50 years old.
Tupac died when he was 1/4 of a century old....get over it.
Thank you for the BA,indeed it is very important.I've seen women at that age who,with exercise,look AMAZING.Hope to never quit myself.
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My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Well I have some.I'll be 54 years young in two days and can still do a back flip off a car and can't find an 18 year old with as fast of hands so don't let the numbers get to you.The difference is now we know we can do it , we are better at doing it,and we know when not to do it..
I hate how our society makes everyone think aging is bad, you're only as old as you act and remember with age comes wisdom, if i were you I'd go out and party like you were 20 again or do something really spontaneous like sky diving.
happy birthday
You should not be taking advice from ones younger and less wise than you. With age comes wisdom. Be who you are and be proud to be half a century old. Remember, we don't GET gray hair, we EARN it.
Happy Birthday! Party like there's no tomorrow, you are only as young as the man you're feeling, no seriously enjoy life!
Don't tell anyone your age and still have fun. Just because you're getting older doesn't mean you can't stay current. Give advice when people ask. That is what makes older people interesting.
Eat your vegetables. Happy birthday.
I love the Carl Fredrickson icon!
I'm nearly 1/4 of a century and I feel old on here, you must be brave woman!! ;-)
Do something really exciting, like bungee jump or snorkling !
Happy Birthday in advance... Keep Rocking... thats the secret to longevity
Congratulations.
Stay out of tanning boothes, don't smoke, stay out of bars, and drink lots of water
partayyy WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooo
about ?
Start acomplishing some of the stuff you want to do before you die...
x
Have sex with me...
Lurk more. It's never enough.
I`ll be 54,Wednesday.Keep on going.
give it a go it just may be your last chance~~
just like fine wine
Stay young at heart!
I hit that mark a couple of years ago...it's not as bad as it sounds!!
yeah, get off yahoo, you're over 50 years old.
Tupac died when he was 1/4 of a century old....get over it.
I dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
i know this is disgusting and i dont have any type of eating disorders. but my stomach very upset and ive been sick for a while, and i just feel that if i throw up i will feel muuuuuch better. my dad said sticking my finger down my throat but my gag reflex isnt very tender? (i dont know what word to use) :PI dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
i totally understand the feeling where vomiting will help you feel better - and it's surprisingly hard to vomit by sticking your finger down your throat. this is going to sound disgusting, but i assume you don't have any syrup of ipecac (an emetic - or something that can't be digested and makes you puke), so i'd suggest water mixed with hydrogen peroxide - way more water than hydrogen peroxide. drink that and you'll throw up. remember to vomit standing while bending at the waist (your head needs to be lower than your hips) in order to prevent vomit from entering your lungs... rather than kneeling in front of the toilet. i hope you feel better!I dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
I think maybe you didn't get enough sleep.
One time I went on a trip but I only got like 3 or 4 hours of sleep and I felt horrible.
Then when I got home I just face planted myself to my bed and slept and I was good the next day.
Just take a good nap and maybe it will get better
if throwing up would make you feel better, you probably wouldn't need to induce it, your body would just do it on its own.
I am assuming you have tried tums, milk of magnesia, pepto, any other over the counter meds?
Drink a lot of water and hopefully what ever it is will pass.
I have a 10 minute rule- If I still feel like I'm going to upchuck after eating and it's been 10 minutes-*a lot of foods don't agree with me because I had my gallbladder out--I throw up....if you actually ';tickle'; the top of the back of your mouth - sometimes one side is more sensitive than the other- or the corners of the back of your tongue-- you will find you G spot for upchucking.....and after you do, you'll feel better- remember to brush your teeth to get the gastric juices off your teeth....and don't eat that food again.
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i totally understand the feeling where vomiting will help you feel better - and it's surprisingly hard to vomit by sticking your finger down your throat. this is going to sound disgusting, but i assume you don't have any syrup of ipecac (an emetic - or something that can't be digested and makes you puke), so i'd suggest water mixed with hydrogen peroxide - way more water than hydrogen peroxide. drink that and you'll throw up. remember to vomit standing while bending at the waist (your head needs to be lower than your hips) in order to prevent vomit from entering your lungs... rather than kneeling in front of the toilet. i hope you feel better!I dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
I think maybe you didn't get enough sleep.
One time I went on a trip but I only got like 3 or 4 hours of sleep and I felt horrible.
Then when I got home I just face planted myself to my bed and slept and I was good the next day.
Just take a good nap and maybe it will get better
if throwing up would make you feel better, you probably wouldn't need to induce it, your body would just do it on its own.
I am assuming you have tried tums, milk of magnesia, pepto, any other over the counter meds?
Drink a lot of water and hopefully what ever it is will pass.
I have a 10 minute rule- If I still feel like I'm going to upchuck after eating and it's been 10 minutes-*a lot of foods don't agree with me because I had my gallbladder out--I throw up....if you actually ';tickle'; the top of the back of your mouth - sometimes one side is more sensitive than the other- or the corners of the back of your tongue-- you will find you G spot for upchucking.....and after you do, you'll feel better- remember to brush your teeth to get the gastric juices off your teeth....and don't eat that food again.
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What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
';Dont expect perfection, and dont sweat minor problems. At the end of the day, you wont remember who forgot what or if the color was a tiny bit off with your centerpieces. No one else is going to notice unless you bring it to their attention, so relax and enjoy your day and your party.';--My mom
';Just take a few shots in the morning, then before that gallop down the aisle and the rest of the day will go pretty smoothly. Just remember not to go too overboard; I once knew a bride who didnt remember her wedding day and got up to go do it over again the next morning.';--Dad
My parents are polar opposites. =)What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
Two pieces actually...
1) Every bride, no matter how hard she tries to please everyone, will rub someone the wrong way. There are so many rules of etiquette, differing opinions, and traditions that it is impossible to be perfect- so don't try! Don't sweat it- just remember that those who love you are excited for you and not looking for the mistakes.
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
Best Wishes = )What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
When I married my first husband I asked my mother if she thought I was doing the right thing. She told me ';I tried 3 times and could not pick one for myself. I can't pick one for you.'; I really liked that answer. My only regret about it now is that I wish I understood it more when I was younger. What I have learned is you cannot listen to what others say. It is your life and your decision. You have to make your own choices, and you have to live with those choices. I was married to him for 16 years. Although it did not last I learned a lot Life is short so make every day a good one.
Take in a deep breath once in a while and look around. Soak it in! Because 6 hours will seem like 6 minutes if you don't soak it in while you can!
He was right. I'm glad I took the time to soak it in!
When my wife and I watch our wedding video, some of the the stuff we saw surprised us, ';I remember that incident, but not the part where the bridemaids laughed.'; etc.
Everything happened so quickly!
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Let God. This means let God handle stuff-you don麓t have to.
I agree with the other person too when she said this:
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
In the end it is all about the two of you and celebrating becoming one with your friends and your family present. Not everything will be perfect on your wedding day but relax and enjoy it.
My favorite advice was given to my fiance by several people:
';If Momma's not happy, nobody's happy!';
:-)
To savour every minute as your wedding day goes by so fast. I made a conceited effort to enjoy every minute of my wedding day thanks to that advice.
good luck
To not forget that it's about the marriage, not the wedding. :) Enjoy.
You don't NEED to do certain things JUST because it is a wedding. Have fun and be relaxed about it.
Don't expect perfection and don't sweat the small stuff.
SIGN THE PRE-NUP, BECAUSE YOUR MARRIGE WONT LAST. TRUST ME.
Don't compare your marriage to that of anyone else
Say yes dear all the time.
dont gain weight after the wedding.
';Don't do it!';
don't get married
';Just take a few shots in the morning, then before that gallop down the aisle and the rest of the day will go pretty smoothly. Just remember not to go too overboard; I once knew a bride who didnt remember her wedding day and got up to go do it over again the next morning.';--Dad
My parents are polar opposites. =)What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
Two pieces actually...
1) Every bride, no matter how hard she tries to please everyone, will rub someone the wrong way. There are so many rules of etiquette, differing opinions, and traditions that it is impossible to be perfect- so don't try! Don't sweat it- just remember that those who love you are excited for you and not looking for the mistakes.
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
Best Wishes = )What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
When I married my first husband I asked my mother if she thought I was doing the right thing. She told me ';I tried 3 times and could not pick one for myself. I can't pick one for you.'; I really liked that answer. My only regret about it now is that I wish I understood it more when I was younger. What I have learned is you cannot listen to what others say. It is your life and your decision. You have to make your own choices, and you have to live with those choices. I was married to him for 16 years. Although it did not last I learned a lot Life is short so make every day a good one.
Take in a deep breath once in a while and look around. Soak it in! Because 6 hours will seem like 6 minutes if you don't soak it in while you can!
He was right. I'm glad I took the time to soak it in!
When my wife and I watch our wedding video, some of the the stuff we saw surprised us, ';I remember that incident, but not the part where the bridemaids laughed.'; etc.
Everything happened so quickly!
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*
*
Let God. This means let God handle stuff-you don麓t have to.
I agree with the other person too when she said this:
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
In the end it is all about the two of you and celebrating becoming one with your friends and your family present. Not everything will be perfect on your wedding day but relax and enjoy it.
My favorite advice was given to my fiance by several people:
';If Momma's not happy, nobody's happy!';
:-)
To savour every minute as your wedding day goes by so fast. I made a conceited effort to enjoy every minute of my wedding day thanks to that advice.
good luck
To not forget that it's about the marriage, not the wedding. :) Enjoy.
You don't NEED to do certain things JUST because it is a wedding. Have fun and be relaxed about it.
Don't expect perfection and don't sweat the small stuff.
SIGN THE PRE-NUP, BECAUSE YOUR MARRIGE WONT LAST. TRUST ME.
Don't compare your marriage to that of anyone else
Say yes dear all the time.
dont gain weight after the wedding.
';Don't do it!';
don't get married
Can anyone give me any information on starting a web site or Internet business,any advice would be appreciated
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6) There is No Annoying Ads or Banners.
7) They Allow me to post up to 4 Free Pictures %26amp; I can edit my Ads at any time.
8) I don't have to go through Registration crap - I hate giving my name %26amp; address etc.....
9) There are No Hidden Agenda's - Just Advertise %26amp; go
10) I NEVER receive any spam BS. - No bugging BS to advertise or to upgrade!
11) And the most important thing for me is there is - There is No BS or Monkey Business...
12) There is No Catch - %26amp; No Bait %26amp; Switch, Nothing to join nothing to buy nothing to sign or other bull crap.
I highly recommend checking into free classifieds of all kinds %26amp; http://efreelist.org - Best of Luck!Can anyone give me any information on starting a web site or Internet business,any advice would be appreciated
First you have to have an idea of what you want to do. Starting a website is sort of like going to the grocery store. There are lots of beans to choose from. Start at yahoo small business. Here is the result of my efforts.Can anyone give me any information on starting a web site or Internet business,any advice would be appreciated
Because so many 'work at home' opportunities are scams, frauds, or designed to make money - for the plan operators, not you - it's a good idea that before you invest time and especially money on any home-based business offers, you educate yourself on the different types of home work based schemes there are out there, and what to look for - and what to look out for - before making any commitment
The Federal Trade Commission offers several advisories about home-based business opportunities and network marketing (MLM) schemes. Here are a few:
';Work at home Schemes'; http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/inve…
'Net Based Business Opportunities: Are Some Flop-portunities?
http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/onli…
';The Bottom Line on Multilevel Marketing Plans'; http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/aler…
The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) consumer alert entitled “Take This Scheme and Stuff It: Avoiding Envelope-Stuffing Rip-Offs.” %26lt;%26gt;http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/aler…
The Web offers tremendous opportunities for those who know how to harness it. You hear of stories of people who earn thousands if not millions of dollars from doing business on Web. While there are many scams (same way in the traditional business world), there are various ways you can legitimately make money on the Web.
Here are the main business models you can adopt:
1. Sell products on the Web - Big boys like Amazon or Lillian Vernon online catalog or smaller businesses like BigKidsVideo.com or Candle4Less.com all sell products on the Web.
You can either sell: (a) through your own storefront through your own website or applications such as Yahoo Stores; or (b) sell through online auctions like eBay
2. Information Delivery. Others such as About.com or PowerHomeBiz.com create content and monetize their content in a number of ways:
a. Advertising - whether by joining banner ad networks such as Tribal Fusion, BurstMedia or Fastclick and display the banners on their site; or through contextual advertising such as Google Adsense or Intellxt
b. Affiliate Programs - you sell other people's products that your audience may be interested in; and you get a certain commission after the desired action was done (whether a sale, a lead, subscription to email newsletter, or however this is defined)
c. Paid online content. Hoovers.com or WebmasterWorld.com Supporters forum all require paid subscription before accessing the information
d. Content licensing and syndication. Some publishers such as the Associated Press get paid every time their content is published elsewhere
You may want to read the following books:
121 Internet Businesses You Can Start from Home
The Best Internet Businesses You Can Start
One article that I found very useful is ';7 Steps to Successful Web Site Development'; http://www.powerhomebiz.com/vol142/websi… as it takes to you all the decision steps that you need to take when starting an online business. Like any other business, startup period is full of ';should I do this'; or ';should I do that'; questions. The article is useful because it helps you think through every step of the way - from why do you want a website to who is your audience to how will you create your website to how you will market your new website.
Here are the steps you need to take when creating your online business:
STEP 1: Set Your Goals - Why do you want a web site? What is the size of the online market? What are the goals for your website?
STEP 2: Develop Your Web Site Strategy - Who is your website target audience? What typically appeals to your target audience? How are the other websites (your competition) reaching out to this target audience? How will you measure your performance?
STEP 3: Set-Up Implementation Plans - What name will you give to your site? How do you envision the design of your web site? How will you create your website? How will you create your content? How will you maintain your website?
STEP 4: Start the Ball Rolling - Do you have a logo? For e-retailers, do you have the critical components needed to run an e-commerce site? How are you going to host your site?
STEP 5: Create and Launch Your Web Site - Have you uploaded your site with your chosen web host provider? Are the scripts and application you need for your website functioning well? Have you tested your website?
STEP 6: Promote Your Web Site and Measure Its Results - Do you have a plan in place to market your website? Do you regularly review your traffic logs and web site performance tracker? How are you going to get sites to link to you? Do you know the search engine keywords that you rank well? If your site is not visible in the search engine results pages for its keywords, what strategies do you intend to do?
STEP 7: Maintain Your Website and Grow Your Web Business - Continue to find ways to grow your web business. How do you intend to continue your education on web development?
I have an internet business opportunity, write me (wasdadd) at yahoo, write if you want info.
first of all you should register with a domain ... like yahoo .. register a site and design the web the way you want ... arranging the items u want to sell in an orderly manner as people like to see things in an orderly manner .. also this is a pleasure to the eye ... dont clutter up everything in the first page itself ... do the research
what kinda of internet business are you thinking about? coz there a lot of internet business you can get into? i myself started making websites...email me up...maybe we can help each other...
While traditional Advertising can be expensive there are many classifieds websites on the Internet where you can advertise for free or cheap. I have used both free %26amp; paid advertising (like Google's Adwords) with some success some were good others were not as effective. I truly like Craig's free advertising %26amp; highly recommend them - A few people in the know also use this NEW secret website called http://efreelist.org - The offer Free classifieds and allow you to post world wide The reason people in the know like this site - http://efreelist.org is because:
1) It is 100% Totally FREE - There is Nothing to Buy, Sign or Join - No options, No upgrades, No Traps No BS - Just 100% Free!
2) They Allow you to post UNLIMITED FREE Ads Nation Wide %26amp; World Wide - No Restrictions.
3) Ads receive an tremendous response World Wide because of their huge traffic.
4) Once verified - The Ads are Instantly Turned on - No waiting period.
5) Even though I advertise one place their Java Script at http://efreelist.org picks it up and simultaneously posts my ad on 200+ different sites around the world - Again NO CHARGE!
6) There is No Annoying Ads or Banners.
7) They Allow me to post up to 4 Free Pictures %26amp; I can edit my Ads at any time.
8) I don't have to go through Registration crap - I hate giving my name %26amp; address etc.....
9) There are No Hidden Agenda's - Just Advertise %26amp; go
10) I NEVER receive any spam BS. - No bugging BS to advertise or to upgrade!
11) And the most important thing for me is there is - There is No BS or Monkey Business...
12) There is No Catch - %26amp; No Bait %26amp; Switch, Nothing to join nothing to buy nothing to sign or other bull crap.
I highly recommend checking into free classifieds of all kinds %26amp; http://efreelist.org - Best of Luck!Can anyone give me any information on starting a web site or Internet business,any advice would be appreciated
First you have to have an idea of what you want to do. Starting a website is sort of like going to the grocery store. There are lots of beans to choose from. Start at yahoo small business. Here is the result of my efforts.Can anyone give me any information on starting a web site or Internet business,any advice would be appreciated
Because so many 'work at home' opportunities are scams, frauds, or designed to make money - for the plan operators, not you - it's a good idea that before you invest time and especially money on any home-based business offers, you educate yourself on the different types of home work based schemes there are out there, and what to look for - and what to look out for - before making any commitment
The Federal Trade Commission offers several advisories about home-based business opportunities and network marketing (MLM) schemes. Here are a few:
';Work at home Schemes'; http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/inve…
'Net Based Business Opportunities: Are Some Flop-portunities?
http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/onli…
';The Bottom Line on Multilevel Marketing Plans'; http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/aler…
The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) consumer alert entitled “Take This Scheme and Stuff It: Avoiding Envelope-Stuffing Rip-Offs.” %26lt;%26gt;http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/aler…
The Web offers tremendous opportunities for those who know how to harness it. You hear of stories of people who earn thousands if not millions of dollars from doing business on Web. While there are many scams (same way in the traditional business world), there are various ways you can legitimately make money on the Web.
Here are the main business models you can adopt:
1. Sell products on the Web - Big boys like Amazon or Lillian Vernon online catalog or smaller businesses like BigKidsVideo.com or Candle4Less.com all sell products on the Web.
You can either sell: (a) through your own storefront through your own website or applications such as Yahoo Stores; or (b) sell through online auctions like eBay
2. Information Delivery. Others such as About.com or PowerHomeBiz.com create content and monetize their content in a number of ways:
a. Advertising - whether by joining banner ad networks such as Tribal Fusion, BurstMedia or Fastclick and display the banners on their site; or through contextual advertising such as Google Adsense or Intellxt
b. Affiliate Programs - you sell other people's products that your audience may be interested in; and you get a certain commission after the desired action was done (whether a sale, a lead, subscription to email newsletter, or however this is defined)
c. Paid online content. Hoovers.com or WebmasterWorld.com Supporters forum all require paid subscription before accessing the information
d. Content licensing and syndication. Some publishers such as the Associated Press get paid every time their content is published elsewhere
You may want to read the following books:
121 Internet Businesses You Can Start from Home
The Best Internet Businesses You Can Start
One article that I found very useful is ';7 Steps to Successful Web Site Development'; http://www.powerhomebiz.com/vol142/websi… as it takes to you all the decision steps that you need to take when starting an online business. Like any other business, startup period is full of ';should I do this'; or ';should I do that'; questions. The article is useful because it helps you think through every step of the way - from why do you want a website to who is your audience to how will you create your website to how you will market your new website.
Here are the steps you need to take when creating your online business:
STEP 1: Set Your Goals - Why do you want a web site? What is the size of the online market? What are the goals for your website?
STEP 2: Develop Your Web Site Strategy - Who is your website target audience? What typically appeals to your target audience? How are the other websites (your competition) reaching out to this target audience? How will you measure your performance?
STEP 3: Set-Up Implementation Plans - What name will you give to your site? How do you envision the design of your web site? How will you create your website? How will you create your content? How will you maintain your website?
STEP 4: Start the Ball Rolling - Do you have a logo? For e-retailers, do you have the critical components needed to run an e-commerce site? How are you going to host your site?
STEP 5: Create and Launch Your Web Site - Have you uploaded your site with your chosen web host provider? Are the scripts and application you need for your website functioning well? Have you tested your website?
STEP 6: Promote Your Web Site and Measure Its Results - Do you have a plan in place to market your website? Do you regularly review your traffic logs and web site performance tracker? How are you going to get sites to link to you? Do you know the search engine keywords that you rank well? If your site is not visible in the search engine results pages for its keywords, what strategies do you intend to do?
STEP 7: Maintain Your Website and Grow Your Web Business - Continue to find ways to grow your web business. How do you intend to continue your education on web development?
I have an internet business opportunity, write me (wasdadd) at yahoo, write if you want info.
first of all you should register with a domain ... like yahoo .. register a site and design the web the way you want ... arranging the items u want to sell in an orderly manner as people like to see things in an orderly manner .. also this is a pleasure to the eye ... dont clutter up everything in the first page itself ... do the research
what kinda of internet business are you thinking about? coz there a lot of internet business you can get into? i myself started making websites...email me up...maybe we can help each other...
My husband may be getting circumcised, any advice from the female perspetive?
My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.My husband may be getting circumcised, any advice from the female perspetive?
I prefer it... a bit cleaner and smoother,
but I have heard circumcision on an adult is very painful and not necessary. I am not sure why he'd want to put himself in pain there as an adult.My husband may be getting circumcised, any advice from the female perspetive?
no sex what so ever.u need to stay away from his lower part until he is heels or u will hurt him
Since you're asking, I believe he must have a girl on the side that is suggesting it.
Beacause in my opinion, ';Why in the world would a grown man want to do that!?';
Just answering your question.
It's a little different. I prefer the uncircumcized now that I back in the land of the guys that are. It's not unhealthy or unclean like someone else suggested unless the man himself is generally unclean. Why would he want to put himself through such unnecessary pain or the risk operations can pose?
He should of had that done when he was a baby!
All of the above answer folks have it right if they are recommending circumcision, that is both the good results, and the problems while recuperating from the surgery. However, what no one has mentioned is the finished product will be like a Michelangelo sculpture as compared to some graffiti on the side of a railroad boxcar. Let him go for it, it won't matter so much to you, as long as you are still having a great sexual relationship, it might mean a little less sexual satisfaction to himself, but I doubt it compared to the way he will look--even to himself.
WELCOME TO A BETTER SEX LIFE!!!!
I DON'T KNOW HOW IT FEELS SEXUALLY BUT FROM A MEDICAL ASPECT...I HAVE HEARD THAT CIRCUMCISED MEN HAVE LESS PROBLEMS WITH URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS AND THINGS LIKE THAT....IT DEPENDS ON WHY YOUR HUSBAND IS THINKING OF HAVING THE PROCEDURE DONE...I'D SAY SEX WILL BE A LITTLE DIFFERENT.....CIRCUMCISION IS BASICALLY TAKING THE FORESKIN AROUND THE TIP OF THE PENIS AND CUTTING IT BACK......MY HUSBAND IS CIRCUMCISED AND THE SEX IS GREAT....YOU PROBABLY WON'T BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX FOR A WHILE AFTER THE SURGERY IS DONE BUT THINGS SHOULD PROBABLY GO BACK TO NORMAL....HOPE THIS HELPS...
it will be healther for both of you all kinds of kooties hide under the foreskin but warn him its like getting your tonsils removed the older you are the worse it is...
Deffinately a lot more healthy....But I am a guy and I really wouldn't know the sensation differences.
why would you wan't the king to lose his crown.......
I prefer it... a bit cleaner and smoother,
but I have heard circumcision on an adult is very painful and not necessary. I am not sure why he'd want to put himself in pain there as an adult.My husband may be getting circumcised, any advice from the female perspetive?
no sex what so ever.u need to stay away from his lower part until he is heels or u will hurt him
Since you're asking, I believe he must have a girl on the side that is suggesting it.
Beacause in my opinion, ';Why in the world would a grown man want to do that!?';
Just answering your question.
It's a little different. I prefer the uncircumcized now that I back in the land of the guys that are. It's not unhealthy or unclean like someone else suggested unless the man himself is generally unclean. Why would he want to put himself through such unnecessary pain or the risk operations can pose?
He should of had that done when he was a baby!
All of the above answer folks have it right if they are recommending circumcision, that is both the good results, and the problems while recuperating from the surgery. However, what no one has mentioned is the finished product will be like a Michelangelo sculpture as compared to some graffiti on the side of a railroad boxcar. Let him go for it, it won't matter so much to you, as long as you are still having a great sexual relationship, it might mean a little less sexual satisfaction to himself, but I doubt it compared to the way he will look--even to himself.
WELCOME TO A BETTER SEX LIFE!!!!
I DON'T KNOW HOW IT FEELS SEXUALLY BUT FROM A MEDICAL ASPECT...I HAVE HEARD THAT CIRCUMCISED MEN HAVE LESS PROBLEMS WITH URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS AND THINGS LIKE THAT....IT DEPENDS ON WHY YOUR HUSBAND IS THINKING OF HAVING THE PROCEDURE DONE...I'D SAY SEX WILL BE A LITTLE DIFFERENT.....CIRCUMCISION IS BASICALLY TAKING THE FORESKIN AROUND THE TIP OF THE PENIS AND CUTTING IT BACK......MY HUSBAND IS CIRCUMCISED AND THE SEX IS GREAT....YOU PROBABLY WON'T BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX FOR A WHILE AFTER THE SURGERY IS DONE BUT THINGS SHOULD PROBABLY GO BACK TO NORMAL....HOPE THIS HELPS...
it will be healther for both of you all kinds of kooties hide under the foreskin but warn him its like getting your tonsils removed the older you are the worse it is...
Deffinately a lot more healthy....But I am a guy and I really wouldn't know the sensation differences.
why would you wan't the king to lose his crown.......
I want to be...(no twilight h8ers, unless u r givin me good advice)?
Renesmee for Halloween, How would I dress up like her??I want to be...(no twilight h8ers, unless u r givin me good advice)?
black clothes and red hair!
black clothes and red hair!
My ball python is stessing me out I need some advice?
I have had my ball python for about a month. He started out very active and lately he has become very inactive and i rarely ever see him. He is just laying around and his eyes are cloudy so i think he might be starting to shed, but he is never out rubbing his skin anymore and i've never seen him soak in his waterdish is this normal or could i have a problem here.My ball python is stessing me out I need some advice?
That's normal behavior for a snake that is going to shed soon. His eyes will clear in a day or two and a few days after that he will shed. If you're worried about the humidity you can make him a shed box. Take a clean empty plastic butter bowl and cut a hole in the lid large enough for the snake to go through. Put some damp (not soaking wet) sphagnum moss in the bottom and put it in his tank. My snakes love it. He'll crawl in there and come out when he's ready to shed. Just check it every day while he's in there and make sure the moss is still damp.My ball python is stessing me out I need some advice?
Its normal. all snakes are differnt. what you read in care guides and what people tell you are just the things most snakes do but not all. my 6 snakes rarely soak in water bowls. but my ball likes to hide and my boa likes to come out and be active. if he is shedding and it sounds like he is just let him go he knows when to rube and when to not. just keep a water bowl in there and keep a constant humidity going. but dont be afraid to hold it after it sheds the more you hold the more you bond.
Check your temperatures and if he is having difficulty shedding try spritzing the cage with some warm water to raise the humidity.
Normal snake behavior is to curl up and hide all day, then come out and look for food at night. Make sure your humidity is correct for BP's--very important for normal shedding.
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well if his eyes are cloudy, he won't start to rub his skin off for about 2-3 after his eyes clear up. the lying around part is just how they like to be during the shedding process.
That's normal behavior for a snake that is going to shed soon. His eyes will clear in a day or two and a few days after that he will shed. If you're worried about the humidity you can make him a shed box. Take a clean empty plastic butter bowl and cut a hole in the lid large enough for the snake to go through. Put some damp (not soaking wet) sphagnum moss in the bottom and put it in his tank. My snakes love it. He'll crawl in there and come out when he's ready to shed. Just check it every day while he's in there and make sure the moss is still damp.My ball python is stessing me out I need some advice?
Its normal. all snakes are differnt. what you read in care guides and what people tell you are just the things most snakes do but not all. my 6 snakes rarely soak in water bowls. but my ball likes to hide and my boa likes to come out and be active. if he is shedding and it sounds like he is just let him go he knows when to rube and when to not. just keep a water bowl in there and keep a constant humidity going. but dont be afraid to hold it after it sheds the more you hold the more you bond.
Check your temperatures and if he is having difficulty shedding try spritzing the cage with some warm water to raise the humidity.
Normal snake behavior is to curl up and hide all day, then come out and look for food at night. Make sure your humidity is correct for BP's--very important for normal shedding.
http://www.kingsnake.com/ballpythonguide鈥?/a>
well if his eyes are cloudy, he won't start to rub his skin off for about 2-3 after his eyes clear up. the lying around part is just how they like to be during the shedding process.
What is the issue and can you provide some troubleshooting advice?
You have configured file and folder security, but users cannot access files and folders that they should be able to access over the network.What is the issue and can you provide some troubleshooting advice?
Enable file sharing. Remember that only ';Shared Files'; will be accessible over the network and must be labeled or saved as such by the host PC.What is the issue and can you provide some troubleshooting advice?
do the users have the rights to access the folders that were shared ?
CLick right mouse to the folder or file,click proties then chosse tab share , click to share and ok!shiseido skin creams
Enable file sharing. Remember that only ';Shared Files'; will be accessible over the network and must be labeled or saved as such by the host PC.What is the issue and can you provide some troubleshooting advice?
do the users have the rights to access the folders that were shared ?
CLick right mouse to the folder or file,click proties then chosse tab share , click to share and ok!
How was your experiences when traveling with an infant on amtrak, i have to bring a ten month old, advice?
travel with only the items you really need,diaper bag with diapers, wipes, a few toys, and any clothing you need in a small duffel bag. Travel light because you have to lug around your kiddo.
Is it ok to ask a catholic priest for dating advice?
i'm close to my chaplain. there is a girl i like but the situation is very complicated. i'm not talking about sex or even getting married...just what i should do under some very challenging circumstances.Is it ok to ask a catholic priest for dating advice?
Absolutely. Priests serve as counselors to couples and help them with establishing healthy relationships. They provide a objective view as they are not the ones in the relationship. They have married many couples, and they know which relationships will work.
They guide us spiritually and help us determine our roles in a relationship. So yes... I would ask a Priest for advice and direction.
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@ Atheist Bean - ';That's like asking a vegan what cut of beef tastes best. NO!';
----You are wrong. Just because the Priest is not in a relationship does not mean that he is not more than qualified to answer on the topic. For instance, does a doctor need to have physically gone through having cancer to be qualified to treat a cancer patient? NO! As such, a Priest does not have to be dating to provide someone with sound advice.Is it ok to ask a catholic priest for dating advice?
Absolutely. As a celibate, the priest is able to give completely moral and unbiased advice. He is the pastor for his parish so he can give them advice.
Yes. Priests are well trained in counseling in all kinds of situations. Obviously some of them are better at it than others. If you are close to this priest and have confidence in him there should be no problem.
The Chaplain can give you sound moral advice that pertains to your relationship. If that's relevant then go ahead and seek the advice of your Chaplain friend.
Of course it's fine to ask your priest. Most priests dated girls when they were teens and young adults, before they entered the seminary. So your priest will more than likely have some very good advice.
Sure.
Most priests are trained counselors with hundreds of hours of counseling people in the real world.
With love in Christ.
It is fully OK to ask.
It is not OK to ask and complain because you don't like the answers he gives you... ;)
I think you should ask a pastor instead... but yes priests are supposed to answer whatever questions you may have.
depends on the quality of the answer you want!
Hey dear ..
Instead of asking this there , you can try it there on a free dating services web site. where lot of lot of singles like you are dating with their dating partners.
Catholicism isn't Christian. They worship the pope when they should be worshiping Jesus, man made rules, teach works for salvation, added books to the Bible, worship statues and loads of other idolatry. It can't save. Only Jesus can. Please pray a sincere prayer with all of your heart admitting to Jesus you are a sinner. Have full faith that His blood pays off all of your sins and accept His gift of everlasting life. I pray that God blesses you with peace. Amen.
No -- Going to a preist for dating advice isn't a good... it's like going up to a broke person and asking them for finacial advice !!
But -- a Pastor on the other hand could help you out !!
Blessings --
Why would you want to? Not trying to be rude, but catholic priests are not suppose to be in relationships or anything similar.. In my opinion people learn through experiences
Lol, you'd get as much help from asking someone from a comic book costume convention.
That's like asking a vegan what cut of beef tastes best. NO!
Absolutely. Priests serve as counselors to couples and help them with establishing healthy relationships. They provide a objective view as they are not the ones in the relationship. They have married many couples, and they know which relationships will work.
They guide us spiritually and help us determine our roles in a relationship. So yes... I would ask a Priest for advice and direction.
**********
@ Atheist Bean - ';That's like asking a vegan what cut of beef tastes best. NO!';
----You are wrong. Just because the Priest is not in a relationship does not mean that he is not more than qualified to answer on the topic. For instance, does a doctor need to have physically gone through having cancer to be qualified to treat a cancer patient? NO! As such, a Priest does not have to be dating to provide someone with sound advice.Is it ok to ask a catholic priest for dating advice?
Absolutely. As a celibate, the priest is able to give completely moral and unbiased advice. He is the pastor for his parish so he can give them advice.
Yes. Priests are well trained in counseling in all kinds of situations. Obviously some of them are better at it than others. If you are close to this priest and have confidence in him there should be no problem.
The Chaplain can give you sound moral advice that pertains to your relationship. If that's relevant then go ahead and seek the advice of your Chaplain friend.
Of course it's fine to ask your priest. Most priests dated girls when they were teens and young adults, before they entered the seminary. So your priest will more than likely have some very good advice.
Sure.
Most priests are trained counselors with hundreds of hours of counseling people in the real world.
With love in Christ.
It is fully OK to ask.
It is not OK to ask and complain because you don't like the answers he gives you... ;)
I think you should ask a pastor instead... but yes priests are supposed to answer whatever questions you may have.
depends on the quality of the answer you want!
Hey dear ..
Instead of asking this there , you can try it there on a free dating services web site. where lot of lot of singles like you are dating with their dating partners.
Catholicism isn't Christian. They worship the pope when they should be worshiping Jesus, man made rules, teach works for salvation, added books to the Bible, worship statues and loads of other idolatry. It can't save. Only Jesus can. Please pray a sincere prayer with all of your heart admitting to Jesus you are a sinner. Have full faith that His blood pays off all of your sins and accept His gift of everlasting life. I pray that God blesses you with peace. Amen.
No -- Going to a preist for dating advice isn't a good... it's like going up to a broke person and asking them for finacial advice !!
But -- a Pastor on the other hand could help you out !!
Blessings --
Why would you want to? Not trying to be rude, but catholic priests are not suppose to be in relationships or anything similar.. In my opinion people learn through experiences
Lol, you'd get as much help from asking someone from a comic book costume convention.
That's like asking a vegan what cut of beef tastes best. NO!
Anyone here in a happy marriage? What is the best advice you can pass on?
Thanks :) Im thinking of getting married. My bf is controlling, but probabley thats because he really loves me? Any tips :) thanks!Anyone here in a happy marriage? What is the best advice you can pass on?
You need more advice than I can put on these pages. Check out my source.Anyone here in a happy marriage? What is the best advice you can pass on?
Controlling doesn't equal love at all - it leads to abuse. My advice - END the relationship before you wind up being in an abusive situation.
If your bf is controlling then you don't need to get married. No one should control you and it will get worse.
Controlling does not equal love. My advice to you is don't marry this person. It gets worse and not better.
Controlling does NOT equal loving...I was in a controlling relationship, it took me 4 years to realize that I needed to get out before it got worse, if that was possible.
The best tip I can give you is to consider leaving him since a secure, loving relationship will never be had with a man who is even the least bit controlling. It's not because he loves you that he's controlling...it's because he's manipulative, jealous and insecure. That is no way to start out any relationship. Good luck
Oh boy.....wait one year at least and see if he is still trying to control you. If he is then move on. A possessive man is a dangerous thing.
you are already headed for trouble!
Yea
I have a tip
Don't do it!!!
Stay single longer x
Are you controlling as well?
breaking from these other answerers I have to ask: there's a difference between controlling and abusive, so which is it? If he's abusive with it then I don't really need to say much.
If he's controlling as in, ';I want the toilet paper over hand not under hand';, you just need to decide if you love him enough to deal with it.
You silly girl..your BF is controlling because he is insecure. If you Marry him trust me it will only GET WORSE!!! Think about it
you better be careful of the controlling men...hope he keeps that under control. anyway, to answer your question, i believe that total communication, honesty and trust create a solid foundation to begin.
i suggest, however, that you both go to couples counseling/marriage counseling before you even set a date. if you're already complaining, there will be issues.
good luck.
Yes I am and my best advice is to put your spouse first, I do this, my wife does this, hence nobody is pushed to the side and made to feel unappreciated.
And by the way, love is never about control. That's a red flag. Could turn into abuse, be careful.
I had a couple things to list when I read the title, but now that I've seen the question, I have a new #1. And that is: Marriage is about celebrating your differences, not using them to exploit the other partner.
You're not off to a good start, and you'll never see a definition of ';love'; that includes the word ';control';.
Married to a wonderful woman for 31 years.
we are both very happy.
for guys...learn this phrase, ';yes dear, I know, it was my fault, I am so sorry';
For girls.....';yes';
Don't go to sleep angry.
Say I love you a lot.
Surprise every once in a while by being romantic.
Without knowing anything about your situation I would offer these tips:
1) Go through a marriage training seminar before getting married. Psychologists have a great battery of tests that help you identify possible issues, then the expert will discuss it with you before you get married. It is great for getting a conversation going about issues before they become problems. Losts of stuff you never thought of that can turn into big problems later,for example, expectations with inlaws.
2) Read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. A cliche, but has some simple insights worth taking home. The book will teach you that men and women have fundamentally different ways of looking at problems, and it helps to be aware of that.
3) Make sure you both stay healthy and fit. Will reduce stress, keeps energy in the marriage, and helps you avoid health related finance issues when you are older
4) Keep your finances as simple as possible. Never borrow money for consumption, credit cards a big no no. Borrow money only for investments, and ideally it is investments that bring in money with the same frequency as your payments to the bank. Education counts as an investment. A HOUSE DOES NOT! If you plan to live in the house you buy, then buying the house is consumption. Also stay away from contractual payments when you can. Get in the habit of using pay-as-you-go plans for phones for example. This sounds radical and unconventional, but given high divorce rates, unconventional advice is exactly what you need. Finance is the biggest cause of divorce, and life in Western countries temps us make our lives as financially complicated as possible. With credit cards and mortgage payments, it is very easy to feel ';trapped'; in a marriage.
Do not marry him! RUN!
One of my special friends from high-school married a really controlling asshole because she thought she could deal with it and things would get better - she divorced him after a year and even then tried to make it work for another year!
If you're religious, it basically takes the touch of God to change him.
If you're not, it takes a monumental amount of introspection and self-dedication to change and as long as he's 'getting what he wants' he'll never change.
wow.
1st: you're thinking of getting married??? did he propose? or are you just thinking that you want to and that'll happen.
2nd: you're boyfriend isn't controlling because he loves you, he's controlling because he has little or no respect for you and considers you to be beneath him.
Sounds to me like you're going to make the two worst mistakes:
1.) getting married because it's something to do. you don't get married because you want a wedding and you think it'll be fun to play house. you get married because you love someone and you want to express to them that you'll stay with them for the rest of your life. good or bad.
2.) not knowing that you're obviously in an abusive relationship (maybe not physically, but definitely mentally), and justifying your boyfriends actions for him. if he's controlling, then he doesn't consider you an equal, and neither do you. what right does he have to be controlling? can you not make decisions on your own? this will end up being the demise of your marriage (if you don't get some self esteem and dump this looser) because if he doesn't consider you an equal he'll have no problem leaving you when he's done with you.
Control and love are not equal. Not at all in fact. If he is trying to control you he is not respecting you and he certainly does not love you. He loves the image in his head of what you should be and his self esteem and confidence is not existent. Only a person with low self esteem is controlling.
My ex was controlling It hurt me He took away my self esteem to build his by controlling me. It was destructive and emotionally very abusive.
I am now in a happy marriage. Neither of us is controlling. We are supportive of each others dreams and wants and needs. We give each other room and we give space. We give freedom to fly to great heights and are proud of what heights the other achieves. We know that together we can reach much higher than either of us could alone
We know we can fall back on each other He's always there for me No matter what I never have to hold back Nor ever have feared his response or felt I had to tiptoe as I feared his control of disapproval.
He will tell me if something does not sound as the best of ideas but he will not try to stop me.
The best advice I can give you is not to ignore your inner voice. If you feel at all inhibited in discussing and communications with your bf then do not get married. You'd be building your own prison
Our church requires premarital classes before marriage, and one thing that stuck w/ me that they said was any problems you have before marriage will multiply by 10 afterwards. That was 17 years ago and it is so true. If you think he is a little controlling now, just you wait......The man you choose to spend your life with should make you feel independent and strong and proud of yourself. Never compromise.
We have been married for 60 years and from day one I have been the controlling one . That is until one day I realized she was controlling me . Make jokes about it , laugh about it . Our marriage has been give and take , I give and she takes . Above all , be secure in your marriage and let some things pass .
You need more advice than I can put on these pages. Check out my source.Anyone here in a happy marriage? What is the best advice you can pass on?
Controlling doesn't equal love at all - it leads to abuse. My advice - END the relationship before you wind up being in an abusive situation.
If your bf is controlling then you don't need to get married. No one should control you and it will get worse.
Controlling does not equal love. My advice to you is don't marry this person. It gets worse and not better.
Controlling does NOT equal loving...I was in a controlling relationship, it took me 4 years to realize that I needed to get out before it got worse, if that was possible.
The best tip I can give you is to consider leaving him since a secure, loving relationship will never be had with a man who is even the least bit controlling. It's not because he loves you that he's controlling...it's because he's manipulative, jealous and insecure. That is no way to start out any relationship. Good luck
Oh boy.....wait one year at least and see if he is still trying to control you. If he is then move on. A possessive man is a dangerous thing.
you are already headed for trouble!
Yea
I have a tip
Don't do it!!!
Stay single longer x
Are you controlling as well?
breaking from these other answerers I have to ask: there's a difference between controlling and abusive, so which is it? If he's abusive with it then I don't really need to say much.
If he's controlling as in, ';I want the toilet paper over hand not under hand';, you just need to decide if you love him enough to deal with it.
You silly girl..your BF is controlling because he is insecure. If you Marry him trust me it will only GET WORSE!!! Think about it
you better be careful of the controlling men...hope he keeps that under control. anyway, to answer your question, i believe that total communication, honesty and trust create a solid foundation to begin.
i suggest, however, that you both go to couples counseling/marriage counseling before you even set a date. if you're already complaining, there will be issues.
good luck.
Yes I am and my best advice is to put your spouse first, I do this, my wife does this, hence nobody is pushed to the side and made to feel unappreciated.
And by the way, love is never about control. That's a red flag. Could turn into abuse, be careful.
I had a couple things to list when I read the title, but now that I've seen the question, I have a new #1. And that is: Marriage is about celebrating your differences, not using them to exploit the other partner.
You're not off to a good start, and you'll never see a definition of ';love'; that includes the word ';control';.
Married to a wonderful woman for 31 years.
we are both very happy.
for guys...learn this phrase, ';yes dear, I know, it was my fault, I am so sorry';
For girls.....';yes';
Don't go to sleep angry.
Say I love you a lot.
Surprise every once in a while by being romantic.
Without knowing anything about your situation I would offer these tips:
1) Go through a marriage training seminar before getting married. Psychologists have a great battery of tests that help you identify possible issues, then the expert will discuss it with you before you get married. It is great for getting a conversation going about issues before they become problems. Losts of stuff you never thought of that can turn into big problems later,for example, expectations with inlaws.
2) Read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. A cliche, but has some simple insights worth taking home. The book will teach you that men and women have fundamentally different ways of looking at problems, and it helps to be aware of that.
3) Make sure you both stay healthy and fit. Will reduce stress, keeps energy in the marriage, and helps you avoid health related finance issues when you are older
4) Keep your finances as simple as possible. Never borrow money for consumption, credit cards a big no no. Borrow money only for investments, and ideally it is investments that bring in money with the same frequency as your payments to the bank. Education counts as an investment. A HOUSE DOES NOT! If you plan to live in the house you buy, then buying the house is consumption. Also stay away from contractual payments when you can. Get in the habit of using pay-as-you-go plans for phones for example. This sounds radical and unconventional, but given high divorce rates, unconventional advice is exactly what you need. Finance is the biggest cause of divorce, and life in Western countries temps us make our lives as financially complicated as possible. With credit cards and mortgage payments, it is very easy to feel ';trapped'; in a marriage.
Do not marry him! RUN!
One of my special friends from high-school married a really controlling asshole because she thought she could deal with it and things would get better - she divorced him after a year and even then tried to make it work for another year!
If you're religious, it basically takes the touch of God to change him.
If you're not, it takes a monumental amount of introspection and self-dedication to change and as long as he's 'getting what he wants' he'll never change.
wow.
1st: you're thinking of getting married??? did he propose? or are you just thinking that you want to and that'll happen.
2nd: you're boyfriend isn't controlling because he loves you, he's controlling because he has little or no respect for you and considers you to be beneath him.
Sounds to me like you're going to make the two worst mistakes:
1.) getting married because it's something to do. you don't get married because you want a wedding and you think it'll be fun to play house. you get married because you love someone and you want to express to them that you'll stay with them for the rest of your life. good or bad.
2.) not knowing that you're obviously in an abusive relationship (maybe not physically, but definitely mentally), and justifying your boyfriends actions for him. if he's controlling, then he doesn't consider you an equal, and neither do you. what right does he have to be controlling? can you not make decisions on your own? this will end up being the demise of your marriage (if you don't get some self esteem and dump this looser) because if he doesn't consider you an equal he'll have no problem leaving you when he's done with you.
Control and love are not equal. Not at all in fact. If he is trying to control you he is not respecting you and he certainly does not love you. He loves the image in his head of what you should be and his self esteem and confidence is not existent. Only a person with low self esteem is controlling.
My ex was controlling It hurt me He took away my self esteem to build his by controlling me. It was destructive and emotionally very abusive.
I am now in a happy marriage. Neither of us is controlling. We are supportive of each others dreams and wants and needs. We give each other room and we give space. We give freedom to fly to great heights and are proud of what heights the other achieves. We know that together we can reach much higher than either of us could alone
We know we can fall back on each other He's always there for me No matter what I never have to hold back Nor ever have feared his response or felt I had to tiptoe as I feared his control of disapproval.
He will tell me if something does not sound as the best of ideas but he will not try to stop me.
The best advice I can give you is not to ignore your inner voice. If you feel at all inhibited in discussing and communications with your bf then do not get married. You'd be building your own prison
Our church requires premarital classes before marriage, and one thing that stuck w/ me that they said was any problems you have before marriage will multiply by 10 afterwards. That was 17 years ago and it is so true. If you think he is a little controlling now, just you wait......The man you choose to spend your life with should make you feel independent and strong and proud of yourself. Never compromise.
We have been married for 60 years and from day one I have been the controlling one . That is until one day I realized she was controlling me . Make jokes about it , laugh about it . Our marriage has been give and take , I give and she takes . Above all , be secure in your marriage and let some things pass .
Why do people give the advice, ';Follow your heart'; when it should be, ';Follow your brain';?
Are some people's hearts smarter than their brains? It sounds like bad advice to me. Your comments?Why do people give the advice, ';Follow your heart'; when it should be, ';Follow your brain';?
Because people that give this silly bit of advice always assume that all people have morals and ethics, making them good hearted people.
I always prefer to follow my genitals. They haven't steered me wrong yet!Why do people give the advice, ';Follow your heart'; when it should be, ';Follow your brain';?
Really you should follow neither. If you always follow your heart, you will always make stupid and irrational decisions. Following your brain is always more rational, but then you never take risks and life can be a little boring. I tend to follow my gut. My instincts are usually pretty good and other times following your gut can lead you to a tasty culinary delicacy.
If you just listen to your heart and use your head, you'll never be wrong.
Edit:
About following your brain.. I am not sure...
A mother is washing her 5 yo boy and he asks when she is washing his testicles: Is this my brain? And the mother replies: Not for another 10 years.
if you listen to that voice in yourself (heart or brain) your 'gut instinct' will help you out a lot, but too many people are out of touch with that. if something seems wrong, it's because it is.
Because people are stupid, and make horrible choices when it comes to relationships. People know how they feel about someone, but they'd rather play head games. So you gotta follow your heart, but use your brain.
Because to follow your brain would mean you miss the good stuff !! If you're always safe and rational you never take a risk and you miss out !!
people over- use stupid cliches.
Because people that give this silly bit of advice always assume that all people have morals and ethics, making them good hearted people.
I always prefer to follow my genitals. They haven't steered me wrong yet!Why do people give the advice, ';Follow your heart'; when it should be, ';Follow your brain';?
Really you should follow neither. If you always follow your heart, you will always make stupid and irrational decisions. Following your brain is always more rational, but then you never take risks and life can be a little boring. I tend to follow my gut. My instincts are usually pretty good and other times following your gut can lead you to a tasty culinary delicacy.
If you just listen to your heart and use your head, you'll never be wrong.
Edit:
About following your brain.. I am not sure...
A mother is washing her 5 yo boy and he asks when she is washing his testicles: Is this my brain? And the mother replies: Not for another 10 years.
if you listen to that voice in yourself (heart or brain) your 'gut instinct' will help you out a lot, but too many people are out of touch with that. if something seems wrong, it's because it is.
Because people are stupid, and make horrible choices when it comes to relationships. People know how they feel about someone, but they'd rather play head games. So you gotta follow your heart, but use your brain.
Because to follow your brain would mean you miss the good stuff !! If you're always safe and rational you never take a risk and you miss out !!
people over- use stupid cliches.
What would be the best advice to young actors when they're facing the pressure in Hollywood?
don't forget who you are as a person. always remember that if you don't get the first job you tried out for there will always be other jobs lined up for you. you should just sit back and relax because stressing yourself out will do nothing for you.What would be the best advice to young actors when they're facing the pressure in Hollywood?
just chill!
just chill!
Whats the best advice you've been given to gain happiness and inner peace, did it work and why ?
It can be a spiritual thing or just plain old common sense in every day life. Maybe it was something you read in a book or was told by a friend. How did you start to improve your life and how soon did you feel the benefit?Whats the best advice you've been given to gain happiness and inner peace, did it work and why ?
When I was in the 7th grade I attempted suicide and when I was in the hospital my grandparents came to see me. They didn't stay long but my grandfather looked me right in the eye and said he loved me. And I realized at that point in time that so many people loved me and I had everything to live for. So I changed my habits and decided that trying to be uncool was really..uncool. So I just started being myself. When I got my last report card for high school he told me he way very proud of me and that I can be anything I want and that he's proud I want to be a doctor because he always wanted to be one. He's never told any other cousins of mine that he's proud of them so it really meant a lot.Whats the best advice you've been given to gain happiness and inner peace, did it work and why ?
I love your question. A good one has always been ';love yourself.';
I also learned from a counselor to just feel the energy and life throughout your body starting from your head to your feet, to enjoy every moment of life.
Another good thing I learned is meditation. When I wasn't getting along with my mother and sister I was asked to visualized them covered in horrible black stuff and imagine me being the key to it all going away and making them happy again. You can change the visual to anything that helps you :D
There was this book i saw with the title:Change your thoughts,Change your world....i thought about it and it made clear sense.Also,i LOVE caring for people and giving as much time as i am able to helping someone out,that makes me feel really good inside. :) (I felt the benefit immediately after helping people,i've always cared but after actually starting to help was the huge feeling of benefit.) The changing thoughts takes a bit longer,but if i keep on it,it really does work.
seriously a few years ago,sitting at the back of a friends car coming back from clubbing ,it was early morning and we pulled up to the traffic lights and next to us was a rolls royce so we started to jeering the guy up by saying what a nice car it was,he replied very simply by saying ..work hard,just work hard and you get your rewards my friends started calling him names after that bit of advice, i for 1 took his advice and it turned out the best advice i was ever given.
There are a couple of things that helped me tremendously. One of them is what my father in law used to say ';never lose your joy';. The other is to live for today, for that is all we can do anything about, yesterday is past and tomorrow is not promised. Trying to live for this day and find joy in the small things in life has helped me come from a very dark place to a place where I have hope, count my blessings instead of my problems and try to enjoy each day as it comes. It's not easy sometimes but it is worth making the effort.
Admitting (23 years after the fact) all the crap I thought and did .It brought the most liberating of circumstances. But at the same time I realized had I did it YEARS ago, the worst of my lifes circumstances would have never came to be. Always remember, you will suffer the circum stances of the decisions you make.
';Good things come to those who wait';. Bull if you ask me ! In this life, in this society and times, you go and get what you want ! Time flies by so quickly and so do years !
i just started treating myself better, stop putting yourself down all the time. just live one day at a time.
Jeff--i found out a few phrases help--JUST BE NICE--and ALWAYS DO THE RIGHT THING. You can't go wrong with these phrases.
start believing in GOD...
take out tym to remember god..and peace will automatically come
just take the name of GOD
anti-depressents
theres alway someone worst off then you
it makes me think straight away how worst my day could be :)shiseido skin creams
When I was in the 7th grade I attempted suicide and when I was in the hospital my grandparents came to see me. They didn't stay long but my grandfather looked me right in the eye and said he loved me. And I realized at that point in time that so many people loved me and I had everything to live for. So I changed my habits and decided that trying to be uncool was really..uncool. So I just started being myself. When I got my last report card for high school he told me he way very proud of me and that I can be anything I want and that he's proud I want to be a doctor because he always wanted to be one. He's never told any other cousins of mine that he's proud of them so it really meant a lot.Whats the best advice you've been given to gain happiness and inner peace, did it work and why ?
I love your question. A good one has always been ';love yourself.';
I also learned from a counselor to just feel the energy and life throughout your body starting from your head to your feet, to enjoy every moment of life.
Another good thing I learned is meditation. When I wasn't getting along with my mother and sister I was asked to visualized them covered in horrible black stuff and imagine me being the key to it all going away and making them happy again. You can change the visual to anything that helps you :D
There was this book i saw with the title:Change your thoughts,Change your world....i thought about it and it made clear sense.Also,i LOVE caring for people and giving as much time as i am able to helping someone out,that makes me feel really good inside. :) (I felt the benefit immediately after helping people,i've always cared but after actually starting to help was the huge feeling of benefit.) The changing thoughts takes a bit longer,but if i keep on it,it really does work.
seriously a few years ago,sitting at the back of a friends car coming back from clubbing ,it was early morning and we pulled up to the traffic lights and next to us was a rolls royce so we started to jeering the guy up by saying what a nice car it was,he replied very simply by saying ..work hard,just work hard and you get your rewards my friends started calling him names after that bit of advice, i for 1 took his advice and it turned out the best advice i was ever given.
There are a couple of things that helped me tremendously. One of them is what my father in law used to say ';never lose your joy';. The other is to live for today, for that is all we can do anything about, yesterday is past and tomorrow is not promised. Trying to live for this day and find joy in the small things in life has helped me come from a very dark place to a place where I have hope, count my blessings instead of my problems and try to enjoy each day as it comes. It's not easy sometimes but it is worth making the effort.
Admitting (23 years after the fact) all the crap I thought and did .It brought the most liberating of circumstances. But at the same time I realized had I did it YEARS ago, the worst of my lifes circumstances would have never came to be. Always remember, you will suffer the circum stances of the decisions you make.
';Good things come to those who wait';. Bull if you ask me ! In this life, in this society and times, you go and get what you want ! Time flies by so quickly and so do years !
i just started treating myself better, stop putting yourself down all the time. just live one day at a time.
Jeff--i found out a few phrases help--JUST BE NICE--and ALWAYS DO THE RIGHT THING. You can't go wrong with these phrases.
start believing in GOD...
take out tym to remember god..and peace will automatically come
just take the name of GOD
anti-depressents
theres alway someone worst off then you
it makes me think straight away how worst my day could be :)
I need legal advice because my dads current wife is trying to get everything?
My father passed away and did not have a will and his current wife is trying to keep all of his things...who all has a right to his belongings? I need legal advice because my dads current wife is trying to get everything?
Move fast on this!
If he had no will, I think everything goes to his next of kin. I also think that means his wife and kids....so you guys have to split.
Don't count on this answer....see an attorney...you need a professional...and quick!I need legal advice because my dads current wife is trying to get everything?
See a lawyer. If he died with no will, everything is left to his next of kin, which is his wife and kids. Go to an attorney ASAP.
Get a judge to issue a restraining order
before she disappears with everything..
Then you can fight her in court..
if he had no will, she is entitled to some things, not all.
Move fast on this!
If he had no will, I think everything goes to his next of kin. I also think that means his wife and kids....so you guys have to split.
Don't count on this answer....see an attorney...you need a professional...and quick!I need legal advice because my dads current wife is trying to get everything?
See a lawyer. If he died with no will, everything is left to his next of kin, which is his wife and kids. Go to an attorney ASAP.
Get a judge to issue a restraining order
before she disappears with everything..
Then you can fight her in court..
if he had no will, she is entitled to some things, not all.
Hey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
My lean body mass is 141.6 and body fat is 27.1%Hey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
A few things you can work on which will vastly improve your body fat percentage as well as your energy level, self-esteem, and mental focus.
Try this for two weeks and you'll definitely see a major improvement in your RIPPED appearance. AND, this doesn't involve popping dangerous diet pills:
First, Start eating fresh (not canned) pineapple. Pineapples have dozens of nutrients that are useful for your entire body, especially your digestive system and metabolism!!!. Slice one up and snack on it. Eat one whole pineapple every two days. Do this for a couple weeks and you'll notice a substantial, SUBSTANTIAL improvement in the quality of your body and skin. Pineapples contain about a dozen nutrients that improve your body inside and out.
- Next, whenever you drink water, juice, etc. squeeze the juice of one fresh lemon or lime into it (No crappy bottled lemon juice please!). This will give you a good shot of pure, natural vitamin C, which also has a long list of positive effects for your energy level and immune system. AND it kills your appetite. Drink two glasses of lemon water every time you get the urge to chomp on hot dogs or cheeze doodles.
- Start taking Omega-3 supplements every day. These contain ';good'; oils that not only benefit your skin, they improve your mood and attention span as well.
- Every three days, take 1000 IU of oil-based vitamin E and 300 MG of Selenium. Vitamin E has a decades long track record of revitalizing skin. And you need the selenium to help metabolize the vitamin E in your body.
As with all vitamins, remember to take them with your meals and never on an empty stomach.
- Okay, now the hard part: You need, no, you MUST start engaging in at least 45 to 60 minutes of intense aerobic activity every day. That means running, bicycling, elliptical machines, stairmaster or an intense aerobics class. Let me be very precise about this: I'm talking about fast-motion total body exercise that causes you to break into a profuse, dripping sweat. Sweating is the way the human skin rids itself of toxins. Aerobic exercise also improves the tone of all muscles and organs in your body. Aerobic exercise will also do something extremely beneficial to your sleep pattern. The quality of your sleep will improve, and the quantity you’ll need will decrease. In other words, the efficiency of your sleep will skyrocket. Your energy level, attention span, and mood will also substantially improve. So, start doing 45 to 60 minutes of intense sweat-dripping aerobic exercise every day. However, it is important that you start doing it every day. So, even though this step is the hardest, it is the most important. This really revitalizes your skin. I know you don't believe me. So, I'm telling you to try it for two weeks.
The last part will really help you to lose weight AND look tight. A lot of people lose a boatload of weight but do NOT lose the flab. By doing intense aerobic exercise you lose weight AND tighten your body to an insane degree. I know, you still don't believe me. Try it for a couple weeks. You'll see...... you'll see.
And don't forget to vote for my answer as the BEST answer on yahoo.Hey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
Running, sittups, planks, leglifts, and more fiber in your diet
Food:
Stay away from white grains like pasta, bread, flour, and rice. When eating grains go for whole wheat, it’s a lot healthier and has fewer calories. When eating meat, always go for lean or extra lean if available. Also stay away from junk food – of course! But, don’t demonize it, because if you are the type who loves their chocolate bars and you completely cut yourself off, you’ll only want them more. Cut down you junk intake to once a week, and on the day you have that chocolate bar make a mental note to get an extra 15 minutes of exercise that day.
Make sure you drink lots of water; it helps your metabolism and hydrates your body (obviously). If you don’t drink enough water your body will think its going to be starved, and will go into “survival mode” – this’ll cause your body to retain all the water you do drink and all the fat it can get because its preparing to be starved. Also, drinking green tea every morning increases your daily metabolism by 17%. You can take vitamin b complex to increase your metabolism as well. Try eating 5 small meals a day to keep your metabolism working, and never skip breakfast! Skipping breakfast will slow your metabolism for the day!
When you snack only snack on fruits and veggies – they’re nutritious and delicious! And low in calories. My doctor recommended eating a slice of cheese with a piece of fruit as a snack so your also getting protein with your fruit. Try to stop eating after 7 pm, and only drink tea, milk, or water after that. This’ll prevent you from going to bed with food in your stomach that won’t be burned while you’re sleeping; it’ll just get turned into fat that you don’t want.
Exercise:
For exercise, make sure you get AT LEAST 30 minutes a day, but I’d recommend 60 minutes. Do cardio exercise every day as well as strength exercises like push ups and crunches. Combining the two exercises will help to prevent having saggy skin once you’ve lost weight. Swimming can be a good strength exercise if you like going to the pool or lake – it tones everything at once and its fun! While you’re doing cardio (like jogging or running) make a routine that’ll challenge you but not over work you. Try running for 5 minutes then walking for 5. If that gets too easy try running for 6 walking for 4 etc.
Oh, how much I understand you! But all these cardio workout programs and diets just don’t work… Reading a lot on this subject, I found out how many unproductive myths there are about how we gain and how we should lose fat! It’s amazing..
For instance, that there is no fat loss magic to doing cardio on an empty stomach. In fact, most trainers “in-the-know” are using intervals instead of slow, boring cardio to help their clients burn fat fast. And honestly, who wants to be doing boring cardio at 6am while their stomach is rumbling? And now, it’s finally discovered that long cardio or aerobic workouts several days a week are the WORST WAY to burn fat.
The fact is we’re burning fat all the time, even while you sit and read Yahoo Answers here. So you don’t need working out every day, but it’s just enough to do 3 short home fitness workouts per week of 45 minutes with no cardio at all...
Maybe the greatest is the Late-Night-Eating myth... And here I too discovered that what my body usually tells me was the right thing: Going to bed hungry is one of the WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO.
Another thing is that those crappy infomercial abs gizmos WILL NOT burn your belly fat or give you a flatter stomach and six pack abs. But you're going to burn belly fat 5 times faster by using certain full body exercises that don't actually target your abs at all...
Another myth is that we can't lose fat and gain muscle at the same time... Well, the truth is we can.
A proper permanent fat loss is about throwing away those good old myths and start doing the right thing in the most natural way. It’s called Fat Furnace; see here: http://tinyurl.com/ffurnace
i'm assuming you're a male? if you are male, your body fat percentage says you are obese. if you are female, your body fat percentage says you are above average. Either way, I';m sure you want to loose some extra pounds.
Get a membership at a gym. That way, you know you won't loose muscle because you are lifting.
Alternate the muscles you work out. One day should be an upper body day, the next day should be lower body day.
On lower body days, do cardio for about 20 minutes. Ab work is also good.
Eat healthy foods. Tuna, Chicken, Turkey for protein. Apples, Grapefruit, Oranges for fruit. Carrots, Celery, baroccoli, for vegetables. Whole grains instead of white. Pistachios instead of potato chips.
Protein shakes are also pretty good.
Aim for 1500 - 1800 calories per day. Depending on your goal.
Good luck.
Unfortunately, a quick ‘solution’ is not the answer to keeping those pounds off in the long term. The best weight loss tips advocate healthy food and exercise and discourage fad or crash diets that produce initial water loss and short term loss of weight that very often upsets the delicate balance of your body’s metabolism.
Losing weight is a slow, gradual process and requires a combination of healthy eating, balanced nutrition and exercise. Try not to place unrealistic expectations on yourself and be prepared for setbacks. If you falter, do not be too hard on yourself and commit to starting afresh the next day.
There are also many natural weight loss supplements available that are effective in helping you to achieve your goal weight and support a healthy metabolism naturally. Herbal and homeopathic remedies are gentle on the body’s system, helping to create the conditions necessary for weight stabilization and balance.
These natural weight loss supplements also promote overall physical, mental and emotional health. Herbs such as Fucus vesiculosis, Gallium aperine, Taraxacum officinalis, Glycorrhiza glabra, and Erythrea centaurium can help to boost the metabolism, improve liver and digestive functioning and keep the weight off. Another helpful herb is Garcinia cambogia that has been used for centuries in Ayurvedic medicine as a natural appetite suppressant.
A few things you can work on which will vastly improve your body fat percentage as well as your energy level, self-esteem, and mental focus.
Try this for two weeks and you'll definitely see a major improvement in your RIPPED appearance. AND, this doesn't involve popping dangerous diet pills:
First, Start eating fresh (not canned) pineapple. Pineapples have dozens of nutrients that are useful for your entire body, especially your digestive system and metabolism!!!. Slice one up and snack on it. Eat one whole pineapple every two days. Do this for a couple weeks and you'll notice a substantial, SUBSTANTIAL improvement in the quality of your body and skin. Pineapples contain about a dozen nutrients that improve your body inside and out.
- Next, whenever you drink water, juice, etc. squeeze the juice of one fresh lemon or lime into it (No crappy bottled lemon juice please!). This will give you a good shot of pure, natural vitamin C, which also has a long list of positive effects for your energy level and immune system. AND it kills your appetite. Drink two glasses of lemon water every time you get the urge to chomp on hot dogs or cheeze doodles.
- Start taking Omega-3 supplements every day. These contain ';good'; oils that not only benefit your skin, they improve your mood and attention span as well.
- Every three days, take 1000 IU of oil-based vitamin E and 300 MG of Selenium. Vitamin E has a decades long track record of revitalizing skin. And you need the selenium to help metabolize the vitamin E in your body.
As with all vitamins, remember to take them with your meals and never on an empty stomach.
- Okay, now the hard part: You need, no, you MUST start engaging in at least 45 to 60 minutes of intense aerobic activity every day. That means running, bicycling, elliptical machines, stairmaster or an intense aerobics class. Let me be very precise about this: I'm talking about fast-motion total body exercise that causes you to break into a profuse, dripping sweat. Sweating is the way the human skin rids itself of toxins. Aerobic exercise also improves the tone of all muscles and organs in your body. Aerobic exercise will also do something extremely beneficial to your sleep pattern. The quality of your sleep will improve, and the quantity you’ll need will decrease. In other words, the efficiency of your sleep will skyrocket. Your energy level, attention span, and mood will also substantially improve. So, start doing 45 to 60 minutes of intense sweat-dripping aerobic exercise every day. However, it is important that you start doing it every day. So, even though this step is the hardest, it is the most important. This really revitalizes your skin. I know you don't believe me. So, I'm telling you to try it for two weeks.
The last part will really help you to lose weight AND look tight. A lot of people lose a boatload of weight but do NOT lose the flab. By doing intense aerobic exercise you lose weight AND tighten your body to an insane degree. I know, you still don't believe me. Try it for a couple weeks. You'll see...... you'll see.
And don't forget to vote for my answer as the BEST answer on yahoo.Hey guys I need some advice on fat loss,I am 17 and weigh 195lbs,How can I lose the fat without losing muscles?
Running, sittups, planks, leglifts, and more fiber in your diet
Food:
Stay away from white grains like pasta, bread, flour, and rice. When eating grains go for whole wheat, it’s a lot healthier and has fewer calories. When eating meat, always go for lean or extra lean if available. Also stay away from junk food – of course! But, don’t demonize it, because if you are the type who loves their chocolate bars and you completely cut yourself off, you’ll only want them more. Cut down you junk intake to once a week, and on the day you have that chocolate bar make a mental note to get an extra 15 minutes of exercise that day.
Make sure you drink lots of water; it helps your metabolism and hydrates your body (obviously). If you don’t drink enough water your body will think its going to be starved, and will go into “survival mode” – this’ll cause your body to retain all the water you do drink and all the fat it can get because its preparing to be starved. Also, drinking green tea every morning increases your daily metabolism by 17%. You can take vitamin b complex to increase your metabolism as well. Try eating 5 small meals a day to keep your metabolism working, and never skip breakfast! Skipping breakfast will slow your metabolism for the day!
When you snack only snack on fruits and veggies – they’re nutritious and delicious! And low in calories. My doctor recommended eating a slice of cheese with a piece of fruit as a snack so your also getting protein with your fruit. Try to stop eating after 7 pm, and only drink tea, milk, or water after that. This’ll prevent you from going to bed with food in your stomach that won’t be burned while you’re sleeping; it’ll just get turned into fat that you don’t want.
Exercise:
For exercise, make sure you get AT LEAST 30 minutes a day, but I’d recommend 60 minutes. Do cardio exercise every day as well as strength exercises like push ups and crunches. Combining the two exercises will help to prevent having saggy skin once you’ve lost weight. Swimming can be a good strength exercise if you like going to the pool or lake – it tones everything at once and its fun! While you’re doing cardio (like jogging or running) make a routine that’ll challenge you but not over work you. Try running for 5 minutes then walking for 5. If that gets too easy try running for 6 walking for 4 etc.
Oh, how much I understand you! But all these cardio workout programs and diets just don’t work… Reading a lot on this subject, I found out how many unproductive myths there are about how we gain and how we should lose fat! It’s amazing..
For instance, that there is no fat loss magic to doing cardio on an empty stomach. In fact, most trainers “in-the-know” are using intervals instead of slow, boring cardio to help their clients burn fat fast. And honestly, who wants to be doing boring cardio at 6am while their stomach is rumbling? And now, it’s finally discovered that long cardio or aerobic workouts several days a week are the WORST WAY to burn fat.
The fact is we’re burning fat all the time, even while you sit and read Yahoo Answers here. So you don’t need working out every day, but it’s just enough to do 3 short home fitness workouts per week of 45 minutes with no cardio at all...
Maybe the greatest is the Late-Night-Eating myth... And here I too discovered that what my body usually tells me was the right thing: Going to bed hungry is one of the WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO.
Another thing is that those crappy infomercial abs gizmos WILL NOT burn your belly fat or give you a flatter stomach and six pack abs. But you're going to burn belly fat 5 times faster by using certain full body exercises that don't actually target your abs at all...
Another myth is that we can't lose fat and gain muscle at the same time... Well, the truth is we can.
A proper permanent fat loss is about throwing away those good old myths and start doing the right thing in the most natural way. It’s called Fat Furnace; see here: http://tinyurl.com/ffurnace
i'm assuming you're a male? if you are male, your body fat percentage says you are obese. if you are female, your body fat percentage says you are above average. Either way, I';m sure you want to loose some extra pounds.
Get a membership at a gym. That way, you know you won't loose muscle because you are lifting.
Alternate the muscles you work out. One day should be an upper body day, the next day should be lower body day.
On lower body days, do cardio for about 20 minutes. Ab work is also good.
Eat healthy foods. Tuna, Chicken, Turkey for protein. Apples, Grapefruit, Oranges for fruit. Carrots, Celery, baroccoli, for vegetables. Whole grains instead of white. Pistachios instead of potato chips.
Protein shakes are also pretty good.
Aim for 1500 - 1800 calories per day. Depending on your goal.
Good luck.
Unfortunately, a quick ‘solution’ is not the answer to keeping those pounds off in the long term. The best weight loss tips advocate healthy food and exercise and discourage fad or crash diets that produce initial water loss and short term loss of weight that very often upsets the delicate balance of your body’s metabolism.
Losing weight is a slow, gradual process and requires a combination of healthy eating, balanced nutrition and exercise. Try not to place unrealistic expectations on yourself and be prepared for setbacks. If you falter, do not be too hard on yourself and commit to starting afresh the next day.
There are also many natural weight loss supplements available that are effective in helping you to achieve your goal weight and support a healthy metabolism naturally. Herbal and homeopathic remedies are gentle on the body’s system, helping to create the conditions necessary for weight stabilization and balance.
These natural weight loss supplements also promote overall physical, mental and emotional health. Herbs such as Fucus vesiculosis, Gallium aperine, Taraxacum officinalis, Glycorrhiza glabra, and Erythrea centaurium can help to boost the metabolism, improve liver and digestive functioning and keep the weight off. Another helpful herb is Garcinia cambogia that has been used for centuries in Ayurvedic medicine as a natural appetite suppressant.
How would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
I had my son 2 months ago, I was exclusively breast feeding for the first month and a week and then i began to supplement because my nipples are very sore however there is not incorrect latching,dont think theres any cracks. I dont think i have started my period, I bled for the first 2 weeks and then began bleeding again at about 4 weeks then i started clotting. Didnt have any cramping or anything. My appetite is alot like when i was pregnant. Is it possible?How would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
If you are breastfeeding then your appetite will be big like when you were pregnant. Your periods won't get normal for quite some time. Relax. Things will get back to normal with your body soon enough. Congrats.How would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
Of course if you have been having sex it is possible...but I do not think you are. Your nipples are going to be sore from the breastfeeding whether he is latching correctly or not. Also, breastfeeding, exclusivly or not burns calories and the whole time I breastfed my son I had a crazy appetite. It sounds like you are fine but take a test when you expect your next period if you still think you may be. Good luck and congratulations on the new baby!
yes because if you dont breastfeed regularly, it stops 'acting in the same way as a contraceptive' i know this because my doc asked me how long i was going in between feeding my son, he said if theres gaps of 5hours or more my body will begin menstruating again. although with so much bleeding i doubt you are pregnant, its probably the breastfeeding thats making you hungry, it does tend to do that with some women. best get checked if you;re worried though
yes it is very possible go see your doctor asap
If you are breastfeeding then your appetite will be big like when you were pregnant. Your periods won't get normal for quite some time. Relax. Things will get back to normal with your body soon enough. Congrats.How would i know if I am pregnant and can anyone give any advice?
Of course if you have been having sex it is possible...but I do not think you are. Your nipples are going to be sore from the breastfeeding whether he is latching correctly or not. Also, breastfeeding, exclusivly or not burns calories and the whole time I breastfed my son I had a crazy appetite. It sounds like you are fine but take a test when you expect your next period if you still think you may be. Good luck and congratulations on the new baby!
yes because if you dont breastfeed regularly, it stops 'acting in the same way as a contraceptive' i know this because my doc asked me how long i was going in between feeding my son, he said if theres gaps of 5hours or more my body will begin menstruating again. although with so much bleeding i doubt you are pregnant, its probably the breastfeeding thats making you hungry, it does tend to do that with some women. best get checked if you;re worried though
yes it is very possible go see your doctor asap
Is it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
My boyfriend and I agreed to go to second base. We haven't yet, but we've talked about it and set limits. We've done this before actually, but we weren't ready and we didn't talk about it beforehand. But now we've grown so much more since then. I was just wondering if it's normal to be nervous and if anyone has any advice. Thank you.Is it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
yes its normal to be nervous, my advice well... just give it time, you will get comfortable with it with time and then when you reach that point youll be ready to move to third baseIs it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
It is normal to be nervous, Im not exactly sure what second base is anymore haha, once you hit a home run you dont worry about the bases anymore HAHA jk, Take this seriously tho, if you are ready then great if not dont do it,
its normal!
yes its normal to be nervous, my advice well... just give it time, you will get comfortable with it with time and then when you reach that point youll be ready to move to third baseIs it normal to be nervous? Any advice?
It is normal to be nervous, Im not exactly sure what second base is anymore haha, once you hit a home run you dont worry about the bases anymore HAHA jk, Take this seriously tho, if you are ready then great if not dont do it,
its normal!
What is a good blogging/advice website?
I want to be able to blog about whatever I want, and be able to get feedback/advice from other bloggers along with me giving advice to other peopls blogs.. Where should I go?What is a good blogging/advice website?
lifehacker.com is a great site, great tips etc
lifehacker.com is a great site, great tips etc
I dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
i know this is disgusting and i dont have any type of eating disorders. but my stomach very upset and ive been sick for a while, and i just feel that if i throw up i will feel muuuuuch better. my dad said sticking my finger down my throat but my gag reflex isnt very tender? (i dont know what word to use) :PI dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
I think maybe you didn't get enough sleep.
One time I went on a trip but I only got like 3 or 4 hours of sleep and I felt horrible.
Then when I got home I just face planted myself to my bed and slept and I was good the next day.
Just take a good nap and maybe it will get betterI dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
I have a 10 minute rule- If I still feel like I'm going to upchuck after eating and it's been 10 minutes-*a lot of foods don't agree with me because I had my gallbladder out--I throw up....if you actually ';tickle'; the top of the back of your mouth - sometimes one side is more sensitive than the other- or the corners of the back of your tongue-- you will find you G spot for upchucking.....and after you do, you'll feel better- remember to brush your teeth to get the gastric juices off your teeth....and don't eat that food again.
pro
i totally understand the feeling where vomiting will help you feel better - and it's surprisingly hard to vomit by sticking your finger down your throat. this is going to sound disgusting, but i assume you don't have any syrup of ipecac (an emetic - or something that can't be digested and makes you puke), so i'd suggest water mixed with hydrogen peroxide - way more water than hydrogen peroxide. drink that and you'll throw up. remember to vomit standing while bending at the waist (your head needs to be lower than your hips) in order to prevent vomit from entering your lungs... rather than kneeling in front of the toilet. i hope you feel better!
if throwing up would make you feel better, you probably wouldn't need to induce it, your body would just do it on its own.
I am assuming you have tried tums, milk of magnesia, pepto, any other over the counter meds?
Drink a lot of water and hopefully what ever it is will pass.shiseido skin creams
I think maybe you didn't get enough sleep.
One time I went on a trip but I only got like 3 or 4 hours of sleep and I felt horrible.
Then when I got home I just face planted myself to my bed and slept and I was good the next day.
Just take a good nap and maybe it will get betterI dont want to be sick anymore, advice.?
I have a 10 minute rule- If I still feel like I'm going to upchuck after eating and it's been 10 minutes-*a lot of foods don't agree with me because I had my gallbladder out--I throw up....if you actually ';tickle'; the top of the back of your mouth - sometimes one side is more sensitive than the other- or the corners of the back of your tongue-- you will find you G spot for upchucking.....and after you do, you'll feel better- remember to brush your teeth to get the gastric juices off your teeth....and don't eat that food again.
pro
i totally understand the feeling where vomiting will help you feel better - and it's surprisingly hard to vomit by sticking your finger down your throat. this is going to sound disgusting, but i assume you don't have any syrup of ipecac (an emetic - or something that can't be digested and makes you puke), so i'd suggest water mixed with hydrogen peroxide - way more water than hydrogen peroxide. drink that and you'll throw up. remember to vomit standing while bending at the waist (your head needs to be lower than your hips) in order to prevent vomit from entering your lungs... rather than kneeling in front of the toilet. i hope you feel better!
if throwing up would make you feel better, you probably wouldn't need to induce it, your body would just do it on its own.
I am assuming you have tried tums, milk of magnesia, pepto, any other over the counter meds?
Drink a lot of water and hopefully what ever it is will pass.
My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Never stop exercising.My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Thank you for the BA,indeed it is very important.I've seen women at that age who,with exercise,look AMAZING.Hope to never quit myself.
My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Well I have some.I'll be 54 years young in two days and can still do a back flip off a car and can't find an 18 year old with as fast of hands so don't let the numbers get to you.The difference is now we know we can do it , we are better at doing it,and we know when not to do it..
I hate how our society makes everyone think aging is bad, you're only as old as you act and remember with age comes wisdom, if i were you I'd go out and party like you were 20 again or do something really spontaneous like sky diving.
happy birthday
You should not be taking advice from ones younger and less wise than you. With age comes wisdom. Be who you are and be proud to be half a century old. Remember, we don't GET gray hair, we EARN it.
Happy Birthday! Party like there's no tomorrow, you are only as young as the man you're feeling, no seriously enjoy life!
Don't tell anyone your age and still have fun. Just because you're getting older doesn't mean you can't stay current. Give advice when people ask. That is what makes older people interesting.
Eat your vegetables. Happy birthday.
I love the Carl Fredrickson icon!
I'm nearly 1/4 of a century and I feel old on here, you must be brave woman!! ;-)
Do something really exciting, like bungee jump or snorkling !
Happy Birthday in advance... Keep Rocking... thats the secret to longevity
Congratulations.
Stay out of tanning boothes, don't smoke, stay out of bars, and drink lots of water
partayyy WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooo
about ?
Start acomplishing some of the stuff you want to do before you die...
x
Have sex with me...
Lurk more. It's never enough.
I`ll be 54,Wednesday.Keep on going.
give it a go it just may be your last chance~~
just like fine wine
Stay young at heart!
I hit that mark a couple of years ago...it's not as bad as it sounds!!
yeah, get off yahoo, you're over 50 years old.
Tupac died when he was 1/4 of a century old....get over it.
Thank you for the BA,indeed it is very important.I've seen women at that age who,with exercise,look AMAZING.Hope to never quit myself.
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My birthday is next week. I'll be over 1/2 a century old. Any advice from you youngsters out there?
Well I have some.I'll be 54 years young in two days and can still do a back flip off a car and can't find an 18 year old with as fast of hands so don't let the numbers get to you.The difference is now we know we can do it , we are better at doing it,and we know when not to do it..
I hate how our society makes everyone think aging is bad, you're only as old as you act and remember with age comes wisdom, if i were you I'd go out and party like you were 20 again or do something really spontaneous like sky diving.
happy birthday
You should not be taking advice from ones younger and less wise than you. With age comes wisdom. Be who you are and be proud to be half a century old. Remember, we don't GET gray hair, we EARN it.
Happy Birthday! Party like there's no tomorrow, you are only as young as the man you're feeling, no seriously enjoy life!
Don't tell anyone your age and still have fun. Just because you're getting older doesn't mean you can't stay current. Give advice when people ask. That is what makes older people interesting.
Eat your vegetables. Happy birthday.
I love the Carl Fredrickson icon!
I'm nearly 1/4 of a century and I feel old on here, you must be brave woman!! ;-)
Do something really exciting, like bungee jump or snorkling !
Happy Birthday in advance... Keep Rocking... thats the secret to longevity
Congratulations.
Stay out of tanning boothes, don't smoke, stay out of bars, and drink lots of water
partayyy WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooo
about ?
Start acomplishing some of the stuff you want to do before you die...
x
Have sex with me...
Lurk more. It's never enough.
I`ll be 54,Wednesday.Keep on going.
give it a go it just may be your last chance~~
just like fine wine
Stay young at heart!
I hit that mark a couple of years ago...it's not as bad as it sounds!!
yeah, get off yahoo, you're over 50 years old.
Tupac died when he was 1/4 of a century old....get over it.
What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
';Dont expect perfection, and dont sweat minor problems. At the end of the day, you wont remember who forgot what or if the color was a tiny bit off with your centerpieces. No one else is going to notice unless you bring it to their attention, so relax and enjoy your day and your party.';--My mom
';Just take a few shots in the morning, then before that gallop down the aisle and the rest of the day will go pretty smoothly. Just remember not to go too overboard; I once knew a bride who didnt remember her wedding day and got up to go do it over again the next morning.';--Dad
My parents are polar opposites. =)What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
Two pieces actually...
1) Every bride, no matter how hard she tries to please everyone, will rub someone the wrong way. There are so many rules of etiquette, differing opinions, and traditions that it is impossible to be perfect- so don't try! Don't sweat it- just remember that those who love you are excited for you and not looking for the mistakes.
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
Best Wishes = )What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
When I married my first husband I asked my mother if she thought I was doing the right thing. She told me ';I tried 3 times and could not pick one for myself. I can't pick one for you.'; I really liked that answer. My only regret about it now is that I wish I understood it more when I was younger. What I have learned is you cannot listen to what others say. It is your life and your decision. You have to make your own choices, and you have to live with those choices. I was married to him for 16 years. Although it did not last I learned a lot Life is short so make every day a good one.
Take in a deep breath once in a while and look around. Soak it in! Because 6 hours will seem like 6 minutes if you don't soak it in while you can!
He was right. I'm glad I took the time to soak it in!
When my wife and I watch our wedding video, some of the the stuff we saw surprised us, ';I remember that incident, but not the part where the bridemaids laughed.'; etc.
Everything happened so quickly!
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Let God. This means let God handle stuff-you don麓t have to.
I agree with the other person too when she said this:
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
In the end it is all about the two of you and celebrating becoming one with your friends and your family present. Not everything will be perfect on your wedding day but relax and enjoy it.
My favorite advice was given to my fiance by several people:
';If Momma's not happy, nobody's happy!';
:-)
To savour every minute as your wedding day goes by so fast. I made a conceited effort to enjoy every minute of my wedding day thanks to that advice.
good luck
To not forget that it's about the marriage, not the wedding. :) Enjoy.
You don't NEED to do certain things JUST because it is a wedding. Have fun and be relaxed about it.
Don't expect perfection and don't sweat the small stuff.
SIGN THE PRE-NUP, BECAUSE YOUR MARRIGE WONT LAST. TRUST ME.
Don't compare your marriage to that of anyone else
Say yes dear all the time.
dont gain weight after the wedding.
';Don't do it!';
don't get married
';Just take a few shots in the morning, then before that gallop down the aisle and the rest of the day will go pretty smoothly. Just remember not to go too overboard; I once knew a bride who didnt remember her wedding day and got up to go do it over again the next morning.';--Dad
My parents are polar opposites. =)What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
Two pieces actually...
1) Every bride, no matter how hard she tries to please everyone, will rub someone the wrong way. There are so many rules of etiquette, differing opinions, and traditions that it is impossible to be perfect- so don't try! Don't sweat it- just remember that those who love you are excited for you and not looking for the mistakes.
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
Best Wishes = )What is the best wedding advice anyone gave you?
When I married my first husband I asked my mother if she thought I was doing the right thing. She told me ';I tried 3 times and could not pick one for myself. I can't pick one for you.'; I really liked that answer. My only regret about it now is that I wish I understood it more when I was younger. What I have learned is you cannot listen to what others say. It is your life and your decision. You have to make your own choices, and you have to live with those choices. I was married to him for 16 years. Although it did not last I learned a lot Life is short so make every day a good one.
Take in a deep breath once in a while and look around. Soak it in! Because 6 hours will seem like 6 minutes if you don't soak it in while you can!
He was right. I'm glad I took the time to soak it in!
When my wife and I watch our wedding video, some of the the stuff we saw surprised us, ';I remember that incident, but not the part where the bridemaids laughed.'; etc.
Everything happened so quickly!
*
*
*
Let God. This means let God handle stuff-you don麓t have to.
I agree with the other person too when she said this:
2) Stay focused on the walk down the aisle and his face when he see's you as you make your entrance. Those vows, that entire moment...far outweigh the magnitude of superficial details along the way!
In the end it is all about the two of you and celebrating becoming one with your friends and your family present. Not everything will be perfect on your wedding day but relax and enjoy it.
My favorite advice was given to my fiance by several people:
';If Momma's not happy, nobody's happy!';
:-)
To savour every minute as your wedding day goes by so fast. I made a conceited effort to enjoy every minute of my wedding day thanks to that advice.
good luck
To not forget that it's about the marriage, not the wedding. :) Enjoy.
You don't NEED to do certain things JUST because it is a wedding. Have fun and be relaxed about it.
Don't expect perfection and don't sweat the small stuff.
SIGN THE PRE-NUP, BECAUSE YOUR MARRIGE WONT LAST. TRUST ME.
Don't compare your marriage to that of anyone else
Say yes dear all the time.
dont gain weight after the wedding.
';Don't do it!';
don't get married
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